24rocks Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 Hi reader, My problem is that, there's this girl I really like and the problem is that, it;s so hard for me to talk to her. I thinks she likes me too, cause we always share this eyecontact in class everyday, she suprisingly knows my name and talk to my friends about me even though we never actually talked. There was also this moment she actually came to where I was pointlessly and touched/talked 2 me(there was no one else there) , I dont know what happened, but it was like I froze and didnt know what to say. I know I'm supposed to talk to her but the problem is simply walking to her finding what to talk about without blabbering or looking like an idiot. I'm starting to feel I might lose her and neva have a chance if I dont do something ontime. Pls help!!!!
Lucasarts Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 how old r u and why are u afraid to talk to her? girls are humans, treat them like one, they arent goddesses (yet) so don't feel the need to act like they are way above you. THey are your equals regardless of how attractive they are, they just may expect more out of you (but most times not) so dont be afraid. And if you think she likes you, all the better, who knows? maybe you guys will get along maybe you wont, but you'll never know until you guys actually talk (and say more than hi and bye to each other) oh and learn to talk in front of a mirror, you'll see facial expressions when you start saying certain things. It's really good practice for the real world, when you have to socialize and interact with more than just the male side of the race
Florida Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 The title of your post is "me talk to her!"..... Do the mods do this for a laugh or is there an unspoken LS code to remove the word "help" from all posts???? Anyhoo, you need to give more info, like: -how exactly did she " pointlessly and touched/talked 2 me(there was no one else there) "?? Did she just walk up to you and poke you, and start talking? I don't get it. On what to talk about: You could talk about the class you are together with her for starters...
Author 24rocks Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 (edited) Details: I'm 17 yrs old for example: There was this time in class the teacher asked me to call someone to answer a question, so she raised her hand and I called her (by her name). AFfter school, I heard from one of my friends she told him about that (that I called her up in class and stuff). SO I was thinking how possible, that was waht she had to talk about. The other moment was when my whole classs was working on a project in class, and being shy/afraid/feeling terrible, I kinda made sure she went first and waited for her to go for her materials in the closet so I dont face her. Supprisingly, like 10 minutes l8r when I went 4 my stuff, she camed from behind and poked me; then she took a book and was like "aw, this picture is soo cute", and I was like "o yea it is" and blah... I felt kinda stupid bcos I didnt know what 2 say it was like a good opportunity 2 talk 2 her, and she actually started talking first. THE WEIRD THING IS ALSO that I dont have problems talking 2 girls I dont feel for, I litearary make friends(girls) everyday (HoT ones too) and have conversations with them for a long period of time. I dont know Y I'm feeling stressed/afraid to talk to this ONE girl! Edited January 10, 2008 by 24rocks
Green Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 Im 23, but when I was 17 I was a mess around a girl if I liked her. In fact I used to be calm cool and funny and if a girl started showing interest and I decided in my mind I liked her too bam I would freeze up act weird and blow it almost every time. First off you need to learn how to flirt. Practice with other cute girls you meet around town, in the halls of school, at parties what ever. Just go up to random girls, and playfuly coment on the shirt there whereing "thats a funny shirt" what ever then maybe say I like so an so's band blah blah... tease them about something, try touching them when you talk, like putting a hand on a shoulder or what ever, or asking for a hug, what ever feels right. When that girl poked you, you should have poked her back... could have been cool. If you start flirting with her and other girls this will build your confidence, and mentaly help you realise there is more then just this one girl. In your mind youv'e built up pressure on what should be a fun experience. once you start having fun with it you'll be unstopable. If you want her number after a 5 minute flirty convo, you could ask her to see something outside, or if shes already away from her friends just say "you look like you want to give me your number" YOU KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO< NOW DO IT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. I CANT HANDLE THESE, A GIRL MIGHT LIKE ME< AND I LIKE HER < BUT IM TO AFRAID TO TRY ANYTHING < IF SHE DOES LIKE YOU < SHE WONT FOR MUCH LONGER IF YOU DONT MAKE A MOVE < AND IF SHE DOESNT< WELL SHE MIGHT LIKE YOU ONCE YOU MAKE A MOVE < AND IF YOU GET REJECTED WELL WELcOME TO THE CLUB < IVE LOST TrACK OF HOW MANY GIRLs rejECTED ME AND IT STINGS A LITTLE BUT YOU"LL BE FINE IT DOESNT MEAN UR A LOSER < UR A LOSEr IF U DONT TRY
Lucasarts Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 lol KMT yeah listen to him, especially the caps lock
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