s_n_d Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 I am so tempted to text message or call my ex everytime I use my phone. Im sure everyone has had this problem. Deleting his number off my phone wont work.. I know his phone number by heart.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Next time you go to grab your phone to do it either A: call someone else or B: Grab something else instead and occupy your attention! And yes we ALL go through that believe you me.
bustertypsy Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Think to yourself how much you are signalling to him how much you need him everytime you call him. If you imagine that his interest in you will be awakened by your silence,this may help.Just stop giving him power trips by contacting him again. You will be doing more good than harm if you stop pursuing him. Just remember it's hard not to call,but by not contacting him,increases any chance of him coming back.
Precious K Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Been there. Know my ex's number by heart, I would just turn off my phone sometimes. Or call a friend a chit chat, but I would still have the urge to text or call him. But I would always think about why I'm not with him anymore. That got me through it, I thought about all the bad he did. Just tell yourself no and put your phone down and do something to keep your mind of txtn him.
Author s_n_d Posted January 9, 2008 Author Posted January 9, 2008 Think to yourself how much you are signalling to him how much you need him everytime you call him. If you imagine that his interest in you will be awakened by your silence,this may help.Just stop giving him power trips by contacting him again. You will be doing more good than harm if you stop pursuing him. Just remember it's hard not to call,but by not contacting him,increases any chance of him coming back. Thank you. Your advice is helping me alot right now.. Everytime i feel like texting him, Ill come on here and read your post.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Thank you. Your advice is helping me alot right now.. Everytime i feel like texting him, Ill come on here and read your post. And if it gets REALLY tough, just come here and give a shout out . :Guys! It's getting tough again!";)
Author s_n_d Posted January 9, 2008 Author Posted January 9, 2008 Thanks a ton! Im guessing it will get hard for me once i pass the three days of NC mark. I have never been able to go past three days of NC. But it HAS to be done now. I have no other choice but to do it.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Thanks a ton! Im guessing it will get hard for me once i pass the three days of NC mark. I have never been able to go past three days of NC. But it HAS to be done now. I have no other choice but to do it. It's the only way to heal and be happy that's for sure. I"m curious. What happened?
ElvenPriestess Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Scratch that, I just looked at your other threads.
82knightrider Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Seriously,I have flushed my cell down the toilet before on accident.I was wearing a hoodie sweater and all in one motion I went to flush and the phone fell out of the pocket and a 1 way ticket 2 long beach:cool:
ElvenPriestess Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Seriously,I have flushed my cell down the toilet before on accident.I was wearing a hoodie sweater and all in one motion I went to flush and the phone fell out of the pocket and a 1 way ticket 2 long beach:cool: That aint no good. We just make sure SND doesn't do the same. It would be a costly thing for her to have to learn.
jdeedee Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Thank you. Your advice is helping me alot right now.. Everytime i feel like texting him, Ill come on here and read your post. I've just been checking the forums every time I have an urge to go to facebook, etc, today. It's helped me a lot. I haven't been the best, I think I looked at her profile once today but hell, that's like 20 less times than yesterday!
Lee725 Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 I am so tempted to text message or call my ex everytime I use my phone. I'm sure everyone has had this problem. Deleting his number off my phone wont work.. I know his phone number by heart. I found this sometimes helps, it is silly i know but: Change the name of the ex in your phone book to something like: - I hate you (My personal favorite) - You hurt me - You lied to me - Bast***d (or some equivocal name) - What are you doing? (a reminder for you) It just helps as a little reminder about what you are doing right before you do it. Sometimes with their name there in that instant you can forget the bad stuff and remember just their face etc. (not good) I hope you get stronger soon
Author s_n_d Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 Seriously,I have flushed my cell down the toilet before on accident.I was wearing a hoodie sweater and all in one motion I went to flush and the phone fell out of the pocket and a 1 way ticket 2 long beach:cool: Hahaha thats hilarious. And dont worry. I wont flush my phone down the toilet. My parents bought it for me. Haha:D
Author s_n_d Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 I found this sometimes helps, it is silly i know but: Change the name of the ex in your phone book to something like: - I hate you (My personal favorite) - You hurt me - You lied to me - Bast***d (or some equivocal name) - What are you doing? (a reminder for you) It just helps as a little reminder about what you are doing right before you do it. Sometimes with their name there in that instant you can forget the bad stuff and remember just their face etc. (not good) I hope you get stronger soon Thank you. && My cousin did that with her ex. She edited his name on her phonebook to a Bad word in French. I guess it helped her a bit. But she was never really into her ex. Unlike me;I love him despite what he did to me.
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