brothermartin Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 hahaha... then look at the pic on my profile.. OOOHHHH DAMN!!!:love: Ok, back on topic. I encourage all the women I see to think of me as a piece of meat. A kind, sensitive, respectful piece of meat, but a STEAK none the less! That helps keep those bothersome lovey dovey feelings out of the way.
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 9, 2008 Author Posted January 9, 2008 OOOHHHH DAMN!!!:love: Ok, back on topic. I encourage all the women I see to think of me as a piece of meat. A kind, sensitive, respectful piece of meat, but a STEAK none the less! That helps keep those bothersome lovey dovey feelings out of the way. A nice T-BONE...
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 9, 2008 Author Posted January 9, 2008 God I wanna bang you so badly!!! lol. You is crazy! lol. 'are' I am not crazy.. I am very sane, very smart, very nice, very sensual, very....
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 CB, you're not married are you?? Lizzie, I like the pic you had up yesterday better. Because we are twins... with our lavender top and big boobies..
Pyro Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 When a woman is promiscuous, everybody say she's being 'used'. When is the male being used? never? I think this is a 'macho' way of thinking. What if she IS using them... Any comments. Men and women are capable of using each other. If a guy tells a girl that he wants an exclusive relationship with her, but then turns around and sleeps with half the city, then he is using her. If a girl is seeing a guy and tells him upfront that she is not looking for anything serious and that she will be dating other guys, then she is not using him.
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 'are' I am not crazy.. I am very sane, very smart, very nice, very sensual, very.... LOL, I bet you are.....
KenzieAbsolutely Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 i think the reason fewer men are seen as 'used' for sex is because the general consensus, whether true or not, is that men would have wanted the sex regardless of whether anything else came of it, thus reducing the odds of hurt feelings on the part of the male.
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 i think the reason fewer men are seen as 'used' for sex is because the general consensus, whether true or not, is that men would have wanted the sex regardless of whether anything else came of it, thus reducing the odds of hurt feelings on the part of the male. That's true. Alot of times a man could care less about feelings , sometimes it's just about the sex. I was used for sex once, me being the big black stud that I am and it felt weird. Although the sex was invigorating and saucy. I felt kinda used. But I just got that dirt off my sholders and put that behind me.
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 That's true. Alot of times a man could care less about feelings , sometimes it's just about the sex. I was used for sex once, me being the big black stud that I am and it felt weird. Although the sex was invigorating and saucy. I felt kinda used. But I just got that dirt off my sholders and put that behind me. LOL... I bet a lot of guys would have loved to be in your shoes... and being used and abused... I'm glad you put that behind you..
Mustang Sally Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 God I wanna bang you so badly!!! lol. Another one bites the dust....
KenzieAbsolutely Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 LOL... I bet a lot of guys would have loved to be in your shoes... and being used and abused... ...........which would never be said to a woman....so there ya go. it's a double standard that may never go away.
Mustang Sally Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 OOOHHHH DAMN!!!:love: ...And another one gone, Another one gone, Another one bites the dust.... HEY - she's gonna GET YOU TOO Another one bites the dust.... **rocking out to a little (BIG BREASTED) Queen, if you know what I mean**
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 ...........which would never be said to a woman....so there ya go. it's a double standard that may never go away. Exactly...
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 LOL... I bet a lot of guys would have loved to be in your shoes... and being used and abused... I'm glad you put that behind you.. It was weird. I mean I didnt know what it was like being used until that very day. Just came outta left field for me. The sex was good but I guess she just used me for the night. I didnt know how to react. I just brushed it off. Would alot of guys liked to have been used? like me? I do not know. lol.
Pyro Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 Would alot of guys liked to have been used? like me? I do not know. lol. It depends if any feelings develop towards her, IMO.
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 It depends if any feelings develop towards her, IMO. Very true riddler but good sex does not a good relationship make!!! IT has to be more.
Pyro Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 Very true riddler but good sex does not a good relationship make!!! IT has to be more. You are correct but I am referring to a scenario where the gal would lead the guy along by going on dates and talking on the phone, giving him the impression that she is totally into him and no one else, only to find out later that she is having sex with others and never wanted anything serious.
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 Very true riddler but good sex does not a good relationship make!!! IT has to be more. Huh???? did you mean, 'good sex does not make a good relationship' ??? But then I would say 'bad sex does not make a good relationship either'
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 You are correct but I am referring to a scenario where the gal would lead the guy along by going on dates and talking on the phone, giving him the impression that she is totally into him and no one else, only to find out later that she is having sex with others and never wanted anything serious. That is true, Before I went through my change of getting muscles and a backbone and a set of brass ones. Chicks tried to play me like that all the time. Take me out, I want to get this, me, me , me and me being a chump back in the day fell for it. Not anymore!!!! If I aint getting any, you aint getting nothing!!! lol.
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 Huh???? did you mean, 'good sex does not make a good relationship' ??? But then I would say 'bad sex does not make a good relationship either' I agree, but it slices both ways. The man does not want his girl to be a dead corpse or a plain jane in bed. A man and a woman can always better themselves in the sack, techniquies , motions, movements, attitudes. My first girl who took my virginity was a closet ho. And I heard all this talk from everyone like she's gonna knock my socks off cause she's a ho. So when I finally do her after breaking up she just laid there and took it. I mean I made her nut and she was done! I was pissed!!!! I was like that's it!!!??? I have better sex with myself!!!
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 That is true, Before I went through my change of getting muscles and a backbone and a set of brass ones. Chicks tried to play me like that all the time. Take me out, I want to get this, me, me , me and me being a chump back in the day fell for it. Not anymore!!!! If I aint getting any, you aint getting nothing!!! lol. So in other words.. you're willing to give in order to receive..
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 So in other words.. you're willing to give in order to receive.. Kind of. I mean I wouldnt get deeply involved with a woman if it wasnt going somewhere. It works both ways. If I'm attractive to her and she is to me, why should she play any games with me such as just using me for my money or taking her out to eat. I'd like for her to treat me too. lol. If I know it's going to where we end up being together I have no problem giving in order to receive but she gotta give too. Give and take. 50/50
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 Kind of. I mean I wouldnt get deeply involved with a woman if it wasnt going somewhere. It works both ways. If I'm attractive to her and she is to me, why should she play any games with me such as just using me for my money or taking her out to eat. I'd like for her to treat me too. lol. If I know it's going to where we end up being together I have no problem giving in order to receive but she gotta give too. Give and take. 50/50 OK.. let's say that she's got no money.. so she can't treat you out to restos and movies, etc... then would you leave her? That wouldn't be 50/50...
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 OK.. let's say that she's got no money.. so she can't treat you out to restos and movies, etc... then would you leave her? That wouldn't be 50/50... She aint got no money???? Damn. lol. I dont mind if she could treat me to pizza it's the actions behind it. It' would show me that she does care and doesnt care if I'm balling. I'm cool with it, I could roll with Restos and the movies. I got her on the tickets so she doesnt have to worry.
Pyro Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 She aint got no money???? Damn. lol. I dont mind if she could treat me to pizza it's the actions behind it. It' would show me that she does care and doesnt care if I'm balling. I'm cool with it, I could roll with Restos and the movies. I got her on the tickets so she doesnt have to worry. Exactly. Her 50 doesn't have to be in the form of money. She could make up for that in other aspects and I'm not talking about sex only.
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