Lucky555 Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 As i have recently had my heartbroken from a guy who was in a LTR for like 6 years or so but out for TWO YEARS of it, should i be very weary of new people who have had long term relationships like this. He is still in contact with her i know for sure. I am rather young, i have never been in anything over a year! What are some guidelines or red flags that i should look for just for future reference. When i started seeing this guy i wish i had LS to help me before i had got this deep! I don't want make myself dwell on this guy but i do need to watch out for future people.
compassion42 Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 I wouldn't consider a past LTR a red flag. In fact, it shows that he does value relationships. Also, being in contact with an ex is ok to me as long as it is friendship in nature. Being friends with an ex can be natural-afterall they shared a lot of time together. As for what to look out for to protect your heart in the future....I would say if he or she still refers to when "we did this or we did that" and they are not referring to YOU in that we statement....that's something to watch out for.
Author Lucky555 Posted January 9, 2008 Author Posted January 9, 2008 Thanks, i recognize what you said which i what happened to me previously. AND I WAS NOT IN THE WE! I hope to learn much more of differentiation between people and if they are available on all levels and if they are not! WE LIVE AND WE LEARN
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