lisa_ny Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 People, Have you ever watched the movie "The Holiday"? With the Kate Winslet story, where she is in love with a guy from work? Well, I'm afraid my situation is going to go like hers... I was dating a guy from work, I really loved ( and think I still do ) him very much. He liked me as well, but not as much as I did. we were seeing each other for 9 months and then, suddenly, he broke up with me. Being totally cold, just told me that I should face we would not remain together forever and that I should stoping lying to myself thinking that way... This really mad me feel like nothing, like having no value at all and like being not worth. It happened a couple of days ago, of course I am still shocked by this. And the fact that we work together and that i have to see him the whole day is not making my life any easier. Today, he talked to me and said that we should remain friends, for the sake of our jobs and that "we" must surpass what happened and pretend nothing has ever happened. I just don't know how to act. How can I talk to him everyday if I am so hurted by everything that happened? How can I watch his life going on without me? How can I stop loving him now? How do I handle this rejection? These are things that are bumping in my head on and on. Am I overreacting by not want to talk to him for now? For wanting a time "apart" that is not going to happen? How can I hide my pain from him if he is so present in my life? Any thoughts anyone? Has anyone gone through such a situation or would like to share some thoughts? tks and take care, Lisa.
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