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How often does your bf call you?


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We are at a age where marriage is not that far away and we're not just 'dating to have fun.'

 

:confused: Do you know if he feels the same way??

 

25/29 is not old, and many men date just to "have fun" well into their 30's, even 40's!

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:confused: Do you know if he feels the same way??

 

25/29 is not old, and many men date just to "have fun" well into their 30's, even 40's!

 

I'm just telling what he told me. He tells me he wont tell his parents bout girls he's dating unless it's serious. To me, if he's seriuos and he sees us going somewhere, that means he's not just dating for fun...unless ofcourse we have very different definitions of what serious and for fun are.

 

I say these things assuming he's not outright lying to me. Ofcourse i dont know what he feels exactly, he COULD be lying, but if not then yes this is what he thinks of me.

 

Deep inside, i dont think he's a liar. But I can see it be possible that he has uncertainities about us because of this sex thing being an issue among other things.

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I agree with Kamille that you should first try telling him more directly to call more often. The way you did it was vague. If you try this and he still doesn't call, then I'd consider giving him the boot...

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I"m replying to this thread for no reason other to say that waiting and feeling hurt sucks. It's almost 5 now. He normally calls around 6 or 7 it seems...so here I wait...

 

And I know some say to not give it a timeline, but honestly, if he doesnt call tonight, I don't know if I can take it anymore.

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Update! Ok i got a txt from him to call him when i get off work. He's ok for now....What should I say or do!?!? Help!

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Update! Ok i got a txt from him to call him when i get off work. He's ok for now....What should I say or do!?!? Help!

 

Um, follow his directions?

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Um, follow his directions?

 

Ha yea i know but what should i say when i call him?

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Don't respond to the text or call him. He should call you. And I disagree with telling him to call you more often. A guy will do what he wants to do. He is telling you by not calling you that he doesn't desire to talk to you and is not thinking of you.

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Never mind that last post. If he says to call him when you get off work, CALL HIM. He is waiting for you to get done with work, so he is asking you to call him at your convenience! You've been dating long enough that you should be comfortable calling him. Many of my guy friends say they want the girl to call (also). Things in our generation have changed dramatically where women are urged to take some of the control, it seems.

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Ha yea i know but what should i say when i call him?

 

We can't tell you how to have a relationship, Fray. We can't dictate the play-by-play here.

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