Green Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 I'm a 23 year old guy trying to get a gf or atleast a very reliable FWB. I've been running into snags left and right lately. A few months back after finaly finding a girl I was really into I had to move for work a far distance away, so I got a short taste of the good life and it was gone. I've been really busy to the point where I had to cancel a date with a cute girl I had met and then she refused to reschedule, wtf? Then I finaly meet this girl at a party who is all into me, actualy asked me for my number, but she came to the party from over an hour away and I went out with her and things were going good but its just to far and a pain for me. Now I met these hot girls down town (seperate nights) and got there numbers and there not reponding to my txt, wtf again. I mean I've seen this happen before, but it makes no sense to me, I guess my spell wore off before I could call. hehe. I should probably throw some kind of party soon. Well the event that got me on this dating thread was this beutiful girl at a resteraunt who showed signs of interest in me, so I flirted a little, got her number she even took out a pen and wrote her name and number for me... and now she doesn't answer, oh well
Nemo Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 It might help, when you're speaking, to pause for a breath. Just every now and then. Your prospective gf/FWB will thank you for it. In all the ways you are seeking.
Dynamo Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 KMT, I get the impression your a shallow guy. A lot of guys are in their 20's. But I've noticed in your entire post, you only commented on how physically attractive these girls are. Maybe you'd have more luck if you pursued potential relationships based on more then just sex appeal? I dunno. Just throwing it out there - I'm not really one to give dating advice.
Author Green Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 Well initialy I'm usually pulled in by a girls body, but with out a meeting of the minds and a good heart I wouldn't be happy. And don't worry about giving me advise, we probably have are weakness's in diff elements
Nemo Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Well initialy I'm usually pulled in by a girls body, but with out a meeting of the minds and a good heart I wouldn't be happy. :love:
Dynamo Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Well initialy I'm usually pulled in by a girls body, but with out a meeting of the minds and a good heart I wouldn't be happy. And don't worry about giving me advise, we probably have are weakness's in diff elements Fair enough, I think most guys are similar in that appearance is the first thing to draw them in. Maybe try looking in places other then clubs/parties/bars for girls. The last one you talked about you said you met in a resteraunt which is a good start. Try different places though. If you think about it, girls in a bar/club/at a party are meeting so many potential guys at one time, they may be overwhelmed in deciding what ones they want to pursue (if any). Plus I don't think thats a real healthy environment for starting a relationship (works for FWB, but I wouldn't look there for a meaningful relationship).
Trialbyfire Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 KMT, what kind of mind meld could you possibly be interested in?
Author Green Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 Dynamo I can really relate to what your saying. The girls you meet at a bar or club are the same women you might meet at school or in the book store, but meeting them in that environment does make things harder to put on the right track. I disagree with you on parties not being a good place to start things though. I only do the whole down town weekend scene because its fun hanging with my friends there. I enjoy meeting people in more sober environments generally though Trialbyfire was that joke... hmmm
Lucasarts Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 well school is the best place to find a good girl (no alcohol, putting you're best social skills to the test) i'm lucky enough to still be in it. It's gonna be a pita once college is over (hopefully i'll find a steady girl for awhile...tho i fear i might suck at picking up girls afterwards) but i've actually had success at restaurants, cute hostesses and waitresses (not all of em are pretending to like you, flirt with the cute ones, you'll be surprised...tho they do have lousy schedules for dates) also a good place would be wherever you work (if there are any girls and if any are appealing to you) because its a pretty harmless environment for social banter. And yes i too am attracted to a girls body...i look for face, eyes, hair, body (specifics: first the legs, then the hips/butt, then lastly the boobs)
Author Green Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 I should get some kind of part time job at the big college around her. It would give me a good excuse to make some extra money and pick up college coeds
Lucasarts Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 you honestly should. College girls love the older men. one of my hottest friends is dating one of the ugliest dudes...but hes 24, and just seems to be able to "connect" with her. It's either that or he just has a big dick. i donno, either way lucky him.
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