silktricks Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 It's been almost four years since my H ended it with the OW. So, at Xmas this year in our mailbox was an unsigned, unaddressed card that said something to the effect that it's been a long time, wanted to say Hello, etc. My H was PO'd, and we ended up having a discussion about the past. I spent a few days trying to convince myself that it wasn't her. It took awhile, but finally I realized that I really didn't care if was her or not. If she's still hung-up on my husband, that's her problem. It's not my problem and it's not his problem. D*mn, I feel good.
Trialbyfire Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 If there was no return address, the only reason she would do this is to cause marital issues. Stalker mentality...
Author silktricks Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 She's definitely the stalker type. After my h ended it she kept emailing for about 6 mos. Until my h closed his acct. And kept calling our house for a year until we changed our phone number. it's funny, though, we've been better than ever the last year, but I didn't really realize until this incident just how totally I trust my h again. That's what makes me feel so great.
whichwayisup Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 LOL! She's got alot of nerve and big balls to send a card after 4 years of NC. Me thinks she was either trying to stir crap up, in hopes that maybe he'd think about her, maybe even call her, or she is just plain selfish and didn't think how stupid her sending a card would be after so many years. Glad that you two haven't let this bug ya.
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