ralf2000 Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 Hello My name is Andrew, and about a week ago, the person I trully loved admited to me that she was going out with someone else, and that she hadn't loved me for a while. When i talked to her about this, she did not seem to accept that she had hurt me. She even denied with her friends and her current boyfriend that she had ever felt for me or that we had been close (both emotionally and physically). When we first met, we had a very close moment, and she asked me not to tell anyone about it. when i got home, i felt guilty because I felt it had happened too quickly, so i talked to my best friend about it, and he advised me that it hadnt been too quick. However, someone overheard and it spread. She found out and was really upset. She claims to have given me five chances in this relationship, and that I wasted all of them. I do still feel for her, but I don't know what to do. Should I wait for her to finish with her current boyfriend (whom she has known since she was two), or should i move on? please help me - I'm really upset and distraught about the whole ordeal. Thanks in advance. Andrew
s_n_d Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 Hey Andrew, There comes a point after a breakup when all of us fight to save it. Right now Im still fighting for it because I believe my ex is THE one for me. I think you deserve better. You deserve someone who does NOT see someone else while their seeing you. When it comes down to it, Its ALL up to you. Everyone on LS is just here to offer advice and help others through tough times and share in others happiness. If you love her and want her back, I think you should try to do so.
Lee725 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 She claims to have given me five chances in this relationship, and that I wasted all of them. What does she mean by this? is there something that you had done which has made this situation what it is?
sedgwick Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 I've never understood why people have to deny they ever felt anything when they break up with someone. I think it comes from their need to assuage their guilt over hurting you, but it's a shi**y way to do so.
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