lynxwizard Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 Last night at church I saw the ex walk in with her guy tonight, she left me to go back to him, we got on well but she never got over him, she left him because he did not treat her well, she says he has changed now, and is living with him and engaged after 3 months, anyhow she did not see me when she walked in, but at the end of the service I saw them leaving and I walked up behind them and I said hi to her, (he does not know me) she had this look of panic on her face, before she could say anything I said to her I have not seen you for so long, then I said 'You must be Warren', and I shook his hand, then I said, 'I work with her and awhile ago I saw her in the hall at work and she looked so happy, I asked her why and she told me she got back together with her Old boyfriend and that he was a wounderful man', Warren smiled when I said that, ( I made up the part about running into her in the hall tho). Then I said to Warren 'You are a Lucky Guy', then I walked away. It was hard seeing her walk away with him, and It was hard to say what I did, part of me ment it because I want her to be happy, and maybe I wanted to score a few points with her, I dont they will work out in the end. They both never said a word to me, anyhow what do you think she thought about what I did ?
quankanne Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 I imagine she was first of all was shocked to see you, then wondering what you were up to. I think what you did took a lot of heart, because you were definitely were the bigger man by being so positive about the relationship when you spoke to them. And I'm wondering if she doesn't feel a bit of the same about you for doing what you did ...
Lee725 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Balls of steel, hommie! Balls of steel!! YUP..... BALLS OF STEEL... I am wondering how many guys would have had it in them to do what you did! - You should be so proud of yourself.
Confused9 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 I am sure you probably knocked her socks off in suprise. Good for you. Regardless of whether or not it meant anything romantically which I am sure part of you hopes it did I am sure you really impressed her and suprised her!
Author lynxwizard Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 I am sure you probably knocked her socks off in suprise. Good for you. Regardless of whether or not it meant anything romantically which I am sure part of you hopes it did I am sure you really impressed her and suprised her! Yes, I hoped it ment something romantically, I am having a hard time loosing her and I have never loved anyone more, the whole story is on here, just look up my thread, while I dont think its going to work for them (I have heard about his strange controlling nature) she would have to get stronger feelings for me down the road to be with me again, and that might take a act of God, maybe what I did the other night could maybe help me a little someday. I do not contact her, she emails me from time to time, she wants to be friends but it is too hard for me (and I dont want to get in the friendzone) I think I will hear from her again and when I do I think I will tell her that its best that we dont contact each other, would someone please read my story and tell me what you think ?
Confused9 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 I know it's hard but you need to move forward. You never know what you might be missing. There is a whole world out there. You can't wait forever. Trust me...I would if I could...but...we can't. We need to move on. Who knows what the future holds for us. I hope MANY good things!
Author lynxwizard Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 I know it's hard but you need to move forward. You never know what you might be missing. There is a whole world out there. You can't wait forever. Trust me...I would if I could...but...we can't. We need to move on. Who knows what the future holds for us. I hope MANY good things!You are right, I wont wait forever, but I will keep the door open for awhile, I have known allot of women and she is really that special, she has a huge heart and really cares about people, when she walks in a room she lights it up. everybody loves her.
Confused9 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 I hear ya. I am still waiting too. But, I am mouring our relationship at the same time. it's almost like I know it's over, but I am waiting for an apology or answers both of which I will probably never get.
Author lynxwizard Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 I hear ya. I am still waiting too. But, I am mouring our relationship at the same time. it's almost like I know it's over, but I am waiting for an apology or answers both of which I will probably never get. Is your ex with another now ? Maybe someday we will both have our dreams come true, like I said if she contacts me I am going to tell her that we should not be in touch, If the day ever comes when she wants more I would think she will try and find me.
Confused9 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Yes, he is. After 7 years together we were getting married this October and he went out to another state to work and met someone, got her pregnant, made me feel like crap by saying it was my fault, treated me like crap, blamed me, wouldn't be honest, barely talked to me about it, and has moved out there. I haven't seen him since October. I have remained in NC since the weekend of Thanksgiving although he texted me 3 or 4 weeks ago. I did not respond. He told me to leave him alone so I have. He is posting crappy things on myspace to try and get a rise out of me but I am not biting. I am living and effing nightmare : (
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Stay NC, Why leave the door open, she has made her choice. You had heart going up to him and not causing a scene. I would have told him the truth and let her deal with the bulls***! lol.
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