bluegee Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 me and my ex girlfriend have been going out for awhile now and she was just absolutely amazing i had so much fun when i was with her. We got along rarely fought things were great. She loved me and i loved her. Its our senior year of high school and she under alot of pressure with school and the future and at times it made her stressd and she didnt think clearly but i always made sure too calm her down. before we started dating she told me she didnt want a boyfriend but fell in love with me and i guess couldnt resist. Just recently she told me that she could keep up with the commitment with all the school stuff and couldnt do the relationship anymore. She was in tears when she told me this because the day before we both were madly in love with each other. What she wants is a break for awhile till things cool down but i told her before the break up that i dont do breaks that its all or nothing with me. She tells me she still loves me that thers not another guy but she needs time. i will do anything to get her back but im worried that an unofficial relationship will do more harm than good. idk what too do and could really use some advice thanks bluegee
Krytie TV Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 It only gets worse once you realize what real love is and lose it. This is an unfortunate situation, but it won't be the last. Try to put it out of your mind and go away to college. You'll have lots of interesting experiences there.
sedgwick Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 It may seem dismissive for me to say this, because I remember how painful it was when my high school boyfriend and I broke up, but you're both about to go through some major changes in your lives. Most people don't stay with the person they're with in high school, nor would most want to. I'm in my 30s now and my hs boyfriend and I have nothing in common anymore (or didn't the last time we saw each other, which was about a decade ago.) It's normal and healthy for you both to grow and change, which I know doesn't do anything to help the pain you're in. But if you can see through that pain, there's a whole world of opportunities and adventures on the other side.
Joshcontner Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 I went through my worst break up early in life. I was only sixteen. I am now 29, married and I have three kids. I love my husband and kids greatly, but my wounds are still healing all of these years later. I write about my ex a lot. Please take a look at my poems and maybe they will help someone feel better http://www.authspot.com/writers/Josey.23969
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