thekid55 Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 Ex girlfriend and I broke up about two months ago. Her reason- She just wants to experience high school. We dated for 2 years and I treated her like gold. Parents love me, etc etc. I'm in college now and two years older. She has a new boyfriend now who is a loser, pot head and lowlife. I found out about him by looking at her myspace, not asking her. I'm not over the relationship and I really don't think she is. I do want to get back together. I've gone about 14 days without any contact. On friday, I went back to my old high school for to talk about college for this presentation. She was in there and she texted me after the presentation saying, Hey, whats up? Things of that nature. Later that night, she texts me asking me if I'm working that night. Apparently, she went into my work that night to visit me with her dad. I wasn't working. I responded. Nah, I work tomorrow and she said, "Maybe I'll get *his name* to bring me by. Referring to her boyfriend. Trying to make me jealous. They didn't end up coming by yesterday. So late that night, I texted her asking for sure if she had a boyfriend. She responded yeah. I said- Oh. She Said- And you care? I Said- Your personal life is none of my business anymore. I wish you two the best. You have moved on and I have too. Good luck. And she said- Thanks. *I lied about the part that I've moved on* Then tonight, I came online. She IMed me asking me when I was going to come by and get my football hoodie that I gave her. I told her to just keep it since I gave it to you. And she was like, Are you sure you dont want it? And I said, Nah, but I liked it better when you wore it when we were together...Do you still wear it? And she said- I do, but I thought you didn't care anymore about us. And I said- I'm trying to move on from all of this. Have you? She said- Yeah. I have. Sorry. And I was like dont be sorry, we had a lot planned for the future, when he breaks ur heart, just think that i wouldnt do that to you and she was like, honestly i dont care. and i know he wouldnt do that because i have him wrapped around my finger. and i was like, whats the point of being together if you dont care what he does? and shes like, well i do. i just want to have fun. and i said, thats fine. and i said that i know you guys have had sex, but i dont care. and shes like, who told you that? blah blah blah. kept questioning me then i was just like, we need to sit down and talk face to face sometime and shes like, g2g ttyl. and i was like to her away message, if you are trying to make me jealous with that kid, its not working. let me know where hes going to college. it says love. I have lied about being over the relationship. It just seems like she is avoiding the face to face meeting that we'll have at some point. It's obvious that she doesn't really care about this guy if she says that she has him wrapped around her finger and all. What do you think of all of this? What do you think her feelings are? Do we have a shot of getting back together at some point?
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