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guys: would you date someone not in your league?


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hahah well the kids thing is a lil weird

 

especially if they are as old as i am

 

but yeah i donno about messing with the milfs...

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hahah well the kids thing is a lil weird

 

especially if they are as old as i am

 

but yeah i donno about messing with the milfs...

 

dude if your into women that age the kids thing isnt weird... & u just said u liked that grandmas avatar

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ahaha i know, but grandma's avatar could be her when she was younger? cause thats one fresh faced grandma if that is her right now

 

and i do tend to stay away from certain milfs (the ones who actually do have children) as i just find it sort of strange to be doing anything with a woman who has kids anywhere near my age... you have to remember im only 20 so the age difference is still a bit of a factor

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Thanks everyone for the replies! I'll just play this particular situation by ear, I suppose. i have never, ever felt such chemistry with someone before... like that instantaneous old-friends, talk for hours about nothing sort of thing. I am pretty sure these feelings are mutual. He's made a lot of effort to hang out with me and meet my friends, but nothing romantic has happened. But, it's hard for me to tell if he is interested or not, because he is such a friendly, nice guy.

 

Oh, and I'm 29 and he's 24. Although, I was just picked up by a 19 year old the other week. It was a friday night, and he asked me if I was working tomorrow. and I said: 'I have a real job, with things like health insurance and a 401k. Sorry, hon.' ha!

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I was just picked up by a 19 year old the other week. It was a friday night, and he asked me if I was working tomorrow. and I said: 'I have a real job, with things like health insurance and a 401k. Sorry, hon.' ha!

 

Wait to go picking up pandagirl Lucasarts. Sorry she was so rude when you asked if she was working on saturday dude

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The chemistry is undeniable, but I feel like he would never like me in a romantic way, because I am clearly not as attractive as he is.

 

So, I guess what I'm asking is, do I have a chance with this guy?

 

You don't know what league he thinks you're in. He might think more highly of you than you think of yourself. The chemistry might be based on the fact that he likes who you are, and he's attracted to that and to how you look.

 

You never know what league a person is really in, just based on how they look. I've known some really pretty women who had rotten thoughts and/or low expectations of themselves and of those with whom they associate. It's not uncommon to start to date someone who looks out of your league, only to find out that the person is not attractive on the inside and that the physical is not as great as you thought. It's typical to completely lose it for someone like that. I have in the past.

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I suffered from severe self image issues as teenager, and that has definitely made my opinion of my looks skewed even though I don't feel that way about myself anymore.

 

But, I definitely agree, that's it's quite possible to fall for anyone, regardless of how someone looks -- good or bad.

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