DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Was I overreacting if all of sudden you have lack of communication from my ex when we were together?? When we were together he called me everyday(he mainly called) but I called him as well too..and would you say I was overreacting if my boyfriend didn't spend time with you on his last night before he moved back home? Was I wrong for being hurt and upset?? I mean he could go out with his friends and all but he would always make time for me too now all of a sudden he didn't.... Would you say I was overreacting if my boyfriend left without telling me goodbye or not letting me know he made it home safey, or going several days without a word from him UNLESS I spoke first..When before we had communication everyday then all of a sudden it lacked??? Am I overreacting if he wasn't being a boyfriend anymore??????? When before he was and also telling me thing wouldn't change between us Was I overreacting?????
Geishawhelk Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 To us, no. To him, yes. But the guilty are always defensive....
Jordane Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Is he your boyfriend or you ex? You started off talking about an ex and then about a boyfriend...
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 To us, no. To him, yes. But the guilty are always defensive.... Yeah I only mentioned it to him one time how he wasn't acting like my boyfriend and he didn't say anything back..he just read the message...
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 Is he your boyfriend or you ex? You started off talking about an ex and then about a boyfriend... My ex we arent together anymore I don't have a boyfriend I was just refering to my ex by saying that...
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 Why are you freaking out about this? I don't know! Thinking about it made me think was I not giving him enough time to be a boyfriend and was I bugging out? I mean why would he need TIME to be a boyfriend when we were together before he even left and even before he left he wasn't being a boyfriend either...
Jordane Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Ok... we really have no idea what is going on here...a little back story would help. Like for instance, when did you break up and was it over this conversation with him?
ElvenPriestess Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 I don't know! Thinking about it made me think was I not giving him enough time to be a boyfriend and was I bugging out? I mean why would he need TIME to be a boyfriend when we were together before he even left and even before he left he wasn't being a boyfriend either... Honestly, you aren't with him anymore, don't stress about it. It's not worth it.
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 Ok... we really have no idea what is going on here...a little back story would help. Like for instance, when did you break up and was it over this conversation with him? I have a thread on here about it..but I will give you a shorter version.. We broke up 9 months ago(yeah I know), It only lasted a little over a month..I broke up with him because when i asked him did he even want to be with me anymore he said he wasn't sure because I was far( we talked about the distance but we BOTH was willing to try and make it work) I told him I know we were far away but we both said we would try it out in the LD relationship but it felt like I was the only one trying and that it wasnt fair, and I asked him to let me know what he wanted to do..He didn't say anything back I gave him his space for a few days and called him and tried to talk to him about it but he didn't retuen my phone call and when I did get a hold of him he was like I'm busy and was rushing me off the phone, so when i hung up with him I logged on to myspace and he was on... So I wrote him and told him that he was right about the distance and we should break this relationship off and remain friends and I told him i would still be there and support his music..He was cool about it and said we what can be friend and telling me to keep in touch with him and saying he would too and that he would call me later that night(which he never did) I also was breaking up with him for him not being a boyfriend, but I didn't tell him that because I was afraid that he would be upset and think I was making him be the bad guy and then not getting a response before when I tried expressing how I felt..
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t139265/ is the link for the ENTIRE story of my recent relationship all the details...
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 And with those nine months of us breaking up I have contacted him to see how things were with him and his music and to wish him a happy birthday but I never would get a response back..just being ignore by him by trying to be a friend..I'm not trying to get the relationship back because I know it wouldn't work I just wanted to be friends and to keep in touch every now and then...
Jordane Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 You were only with him for a month and he was a jerk. No you were not overreacting, he just was not into your relationship as much as you were. Find someone else.
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 You were only with him for a month and he was a jerk. No you were not overreacting, he just was not into your relationship as much as you were. Find someone else. Yeah thanks..I know I will eventually find someone better...I thought I had it good when I met him! Your right he wasn't all into the relationship when I thought he was..Thanks..
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