StartFresh Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 I have a pretty large crush on another girl and my lady friends (strictly friends) have other girls I've met, liked, etc that want to hook me up with. How do I wein off the ex? I feel bad because we broke up on not-so-bad terms so us hooking up again isn't totally terrible, but at the same time I feel like I am not ready to get back into something and would still like to see what else is out there. I'm afraid if I jump back into a relationship I'm going to be tempted to cheat if I don't fulfill this curiousity now (I havent done that in the past, maybe its just my paranoia coming through). What do you think, how should I handle this?
Geishawhelk Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Why are you actively creating problems for yourself? If she's an ex- then leave it at that. She's an "ex" for a reason, isn't she? Just go out and find new people, and if she says "Oh, i thought you an me were getting back together," tell her that was never on the cards. as you haven't even discussed a reconciliation, she's making assumptions, and you're sorry, but maybe it's better you both move on and see other people.... How hard do you want to make this?
TheStudent Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Well, if you arent ready to get into another commitment or try it the second time then so be it.. I dont know how much more you want to see whats out there but its all up to your feelings towards the EX.
Jordane Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Unless you guys have talked about getting back together and you have agreed to, then you're in the clear to do as you please.
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