bentnotbroken Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Let me get this clear. You wish your MM have low morals and willing to participate in an affair with you? That's what I got from it.
frannie Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 i wish that was the case. unfortunately he couldn't live with himself if he had an affair so that's never gonna happen. thanks anyway thanks for all your replies peeps. i hear you all!(((hugs))) The thing is, he's been involved with you for a while, you've kissed, he's told you he loves you 'deeply', and he has called you telling you he can't deal with not having you in his life (albeit he denied memory of that later). A lot of people would say that already was an affair. Plus, you said he's left one woman for another before, which does suggest he's engaged in similar behaviour in the past. So I don't believe he 'wouldn't' have an affair. Personally, I hope he never contacts you again, because he has been just messing you around. I know that isn't what you want, but it would be better for you in the long-run. Because he says he has everything he wants at home... so what would be left to offer you? Yes, being his OW sounds preferable to not having him in your life at all, but actually being an OW... to a man who is not leaving? I can see hope (that he'll contact you, that he loves you, that maybe one day he'll leave) all over your posts, and that hope is actually what makes you miserable in the long run.
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