Cobra_X30 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Like I've said before, I've created a monster. Yes, he's been a jerk. But I'm not innocent here... Hmmm... I don't think you made him a jerk, nor is it your fault for allowing him to be one. That's his choice overall. The only thing you can be blamed for is believing in him. So, in my eyes you did nothing wrong.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 what's going on, star? anything new? everything okay? well, i know it's not okay, but you know what i mean. just checking in.
Ariadne Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 I agree 100%. That was my first inkling that this was not a man. I mean I didn't say anything at the time other than that Star should pay attention how he responds to disappointments in life. It was a little red flag for me. I can't imagine being with a guy who whines and carries on about a pair of skis for a week. That's not my kind of man anyway. That ONE thing spoke volumes to me. Hey, I know, I wouldn't even mind waiting the two hours. After all, it was her choice to wait there, he told her from the start that the door was closed. I wouldn't even mind that he'd want to break up, that is his choice, he wants to be single now. Fine. But I can't put up with some dumbas. That alone would turn me off and, as much as I'd care about him, I wouldn't want him for a partner. Like a baby. It seems like the tantrums are not only about skiis, it's about every little problem. Ariadne
Ariadne Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Hey, I know, I wouldn't even mind waiting the two hours. After all, it was her choice to wait there, he told her from the start that the door was closed. I wouldn't even mind that he'd want to break up, that is his choice, he wants to be single now. Fine. But I can't put up with some dumbas. That alone would turn me off and, as much as I'd care about him, I wouldn't want him for a partner. Like a baby. It seems like the tantrums are not only about skiis, it's about every little problem. Ariadne Oh no!!!!!! Why did I say that stupid thing? Now God is going to send me the biggest Donald Duck to fall in love with so that I learn my lesson that everyone is lovable despite being temper tantrum crap, and that is just a temperament thing that is not important yadda yadda. Every time I say stuff like that I curse myself. Ok, ok, I'd probably love a guy like that madly, regardless of his temper, or if he calls himself names, or whatever.
Author Star Gazer Posted January 9, 2008 Author Posted January 9, 2008 what's going on, star? anything new? everything okay? well, i know it's not okay, but you know what i mean. just checking in. Things seem to be...okay. I won't go into detail, I'll be bashed. But things are okay.
whichwayisup Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 It's your life, so if you feel you want to be with him until he leaves, then do so. When/if the time comes you need support, I'm sure we'll all give it to you. Just shield your heart and don't give him the power to hurt you anymore or treat you poorly..
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