DJ Dancer Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Say they want to be friends and to keep in touch with them after a break up when they don't do neither??? Why is that???? After my break up with my ex he said what can be friends and to keep in touch, but I have been doing that but he doesn't say anything back to me..why is that???
Curmudgeon Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Say they want to be friends and to keep in touch with them after a break up when they don't do neither??? Why is that???? After my break up with my ex he said what can be friends and to keep in touch, but I have been doing that but he doesn't say anything back to me..why is that??? ...it's a cowardly, comfortable and easy way out because many men are conflict- and confrontation-adverse. This is a, "Why do some men..." rather than just "Why do men..." question.
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 5, 2008 Author Posted January 5, 2008 ...it's a cowardly, comfortable and easy way out because many men are conflict- and confrontation-adverse. This is a, "Why do some men..." rather than just "Why do men..." question. Yeah that was my fault I shouldn't put all men in that catagorie...Thank for the reply
brothermartin Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Say they want to be friends and to keep in touch with them after a break up when they don't do neither??? Why is that???? After my break up with my ex he said what can be friends and to keep in touch, but I have been doing that but he doesn't say anything back to me..why is that??? Good question. My ex all but threatened me with friendship after she left me, now I don't see or really hear from her at all. So that door swings both ways.
PLAYBRAT Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 It's the nice way of saying "I doubt I will talk to you much after this, but I can't handle hearing you cry about it, so I will tell you this to pacify you long enough to get me through this uncomfortable discussion"... Bottom line...he is not interested in keeping in touch. So neither should you be.
brothermartin Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 It's the nice way of saying "I doubt I will talk to you much after this, but I can't handle hearing you cry about it, so I will tell you this to pacify you long enough to get me through this uncomfortable discussion"... Bottom line...he is not interested in keeping in touch. So neither should you be. Thanks PLAYBRAT. That answers my question.
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 It's the nice way of saying "I doubt I will talk to you much after this, but I can't handle hearing you cry about it, so I will tell you this to pacify you long enough to get me through this uncomfortable discussion"... Bottom line...he is not interested in keeping in touch. So neither should you be. Yea very well said..you answered my question! Thanks so much!
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