secretsdating Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Why do some women cheat? Can you stop cheating women? More women are choosing to cheat on their partners than ever before. This article will list the main reasons why some women cheat. 1. Revenge. Although you didn't sleep with someone else, you may as well have. You have broken her trust in some other way. Cheating women often sleep with someone else to pay you back for that dodgy investment or the lie she caught you out on. Apologize profusely and hopefully she will forgive you instead of joining the cheating women society. 2. Feeling unappreciated. Do you treat your wife or girlfriend like an unpaid nanny? Do you ever thank her for all those boring chores she does in and out of the house? What is she doing while you are playing golf? Housework? Minding the children? Seeing someone else? Cheating women often do so because they feel totally neglected at home. Show her you do appreciate her. Say thank you. Notice what has been done. Give her some help. Cheating women are looking for some appreciation and thanks. 3. The honeymoon is over. Another motivator for cheating women is that they are not getting enough sex at home. Once that sexual glow has gone and the sex becomes less frequent, cheating women look for it elsewhere. Try and put some time aside for sex. Go to bed early instead o f falling asleep in front of the TV could be all you need to do. 4. Boring sex. Cheating women often say that it is the excitement of the affair that is the big attraction. Sex at home has become boring and routine. Try and put a spark back into your sex life so that your partner need not leave home to find sexual adventure. Cheating women love the thrill of the illicit affair. 5. Low self esteem. Having someone pay attention to you can really boost your ego. Cheating women are often looking for the flattery they are not getting at home. Pay your partner some attention, flatter her, and prevent her from becoming a cheating woman. 6. No intimacy. All women need to feel close to their loved ones. Cheating women have given up on getting it from their partners and are looking elsewhere. Hugs, kisses, massages, all will make her feel closer to you. 7. No emotional input. Women need you to talk about your emotions. You may think it is worse than going to the dentist. Cheating women are looking for the emotional feed back they are not getting at home. Cheating women can be prevented just by expressing your emotions. 8. You cheated first. Cheating women are often paying back their husband for his sexual infidelity. Sexual revenge is a huge motivator for cheating women. This kind of tit for tat is only going to hurt you both. 9. Sayonara. Some cheating women have already mentally left the relationship and are looking for the replacement. Emotionally, this cheating woman has already left you. She probably isn't planning on staying. With some attention and flattery your partner need not join the lengthening list of cheating women. More Details Visit:http://www.exclusivedatingsecrets.com http://www.exclusivedatingsecrets.com http://www.exclusivedatingsecrets.com
Lee725 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I was just wondering ... do you have a question here? or are you looking for feedback on an article...
ElvenPriestess Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I would answer your topic's question "why do women cheat" but you did a good job of it already. And btw, it's men too, not just women, to clarify.
tanbark813 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Who cares why? Drop the whore and find someone worthwhile.
compassion42 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I think the info. is just common sense stuff. I also think OP is just trying to get you to go to his website....
SYRACUSE03 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Who cares why? Drop the whore and find someone worthwhile. A lot of thought put into this post but "been there, done that" so am guilty of agreeing with this.
Rooster_DAR Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 A lot of thought put into this post but "been there, done that" so am guilty of agreeing with this. I third this notion. I think if you want to stay in a LT relationship with a women, you have to put lot's of work into figuring them out and staying one step ahead. I'm wondering if the effort is even worth it anymore.
EYECANDY000 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Who cares why? Drop the whore and find someone worthwhile. Oh wow tanbark .. haha:)
underpants Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Who cares why? Drop the whore/man whore and find someone worthwhile. I totally agree. Actually, I think if more people did this and stuck to it then cheating behaviour might be reduced somewhat. People do stuff because they get away with it and because they are forgiven. No consequence = reward of behaviour.
Florida Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I totally agree. Actually, I think if more people did this and stuck to it then cheating behaviour might be reduced somewhat. People do stuff because they get away with it and because they are forgiven. No consequence = reward of behaviour. Or they may just start with someone new, and do it again, having learned the pitfalls of how not to be caught (shivers)
underpants Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Or they may just start with someone new, and do it again, having learned the pitfalls of how not to be caught (shivers) Well, they are simply not your problem any longer. Granted, everyone has to subscribe to this plan for it to work. Then eventually, cheaters will just wind up with other cheaters and that is justice in itself.
Winfield Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 If they want to leave, they'll end up leaving (try and stop them and it'll only end up as resentment)... ...and if they want to stay, they'll stay... What's to analyse?
tanbark813 Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Actually, I think if more people did this and stuck to it then cheating behaviour might be reduced somewhat. People do stuff because they get away with it and because they are forgiven. No consequence = reward of behaviour. I agree 100%. Too many people put up with it.
oppath Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 I agree 100%. Too many people put up with it. I agree with this. I've certainly put up with some poor treatment and taken my knocks, growing as a person. I think there are two extremes most people are guilty of. (1) not giving someone enough of a chance and being too dismissive, always thinking something else better is out there rather than taking a chance at being happy with the person who is there. Online dating is the epitome of this as there are so many options, some people get in the one after another mode rather than a 2-3 decent people, I'll see how it goes with them and give them a couple dates if I like them before interacting with more people mode. (2) Tolerating poor treatment. People go from serial dating to serial monogamy and the in between seems rare. Give a guy or girl a few dates if you like them reasonably well. Their feelings won't be hurt. But if you've been dating someone a while...really make their actions match their words and don't be a doormat. If you say "I feel disrespected by this" and they aren't doing much to relieve that discomfort, assign a consequence to that.
Lee725 Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Give a guy or girl a few dates if you like them reasonably well. Their feelings won't be hurt. But if you've been dating someone a while...really make their actions match their words and don't be a doormat. If you say "I feel disrespected by this" and they aren't doing much to relieve that discomfort, assign a consequence to that. Completely agree
Racquel Colette Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 This is the most retarded and sexist thread ever. Sorry, but it's true.
SYRACUSE03 Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 This is the most retarded and sexist thread ever. Sorry, but it's true. Why? Because people are giving their honest opinion instead of some cliche' answer. Bottom line is...if you love your partner, you fix the problem. If not, leave. The next statement is specific to a past experience and I'm not stereo typing all cheating women but... Enough of the excuses of why a woman laid on their back and how unexplicably their clothes fell off and another man's penis mysteriously found it's way inside her. But it's my fault...my actions made her to do it. Sorry I don't agree with you on this. I don't condone any excuse for cheating, male or female.
White Flower Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 I totally agree. Actually, I think if more people did this and stuck to it then cheating behaviour might be reduced somewhat. People do stuff because they get away with it and because they are forgiven. No consequence = reward of behaviour. I keep seeing this over and over. It sounds great, but now that I am an OW I just don't see it that way. I'm not in this A JUST to get away with it. I don't get off on the illicitness of it. In fact, I am such a cautious person that I can't believe I'm doing this. Now, if there was a consequence such as a death threat against me by my H or his W found out and MM wanted to work things out with her then by all means I would end it. BTW, once my H was put in jail for the death threat and or I got a RO against him, I would continue the A. I don't need his forgiveness at this point. So, I'm doing this as long as MM and I want to do it. I suppose in a way we're "getting away with it" so I can see that point, but it's almost like saying we're doing it because we can. Well, I'm certainly not doing it just because I can; there are a whole lot of other meaningful reasons for doing it as mentioned in the OP.
Cobra_X30 Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 I keep seeing this over and over. It sounds great, but now that I am an OW I just don't see it that way. I'm not in this A JUST to get away with it. I don't get off on the illicitness of it. In fact, I am such a cautious person that I can't believe I'm doing this. Now, if there was a consequence such as a death threat against me by my H or his W found out and MM wanted to work things out with her then by all means I would end it. BTW, once my H was put in jail for the death threat and or I got a RO against him, I would continue the A. I don't need his forgiveness at this point. So, I'm doing this as long as MM and I want to do it. I suppose in a way we're "getting away with it" so I can see that point, but it's almost like saying we're doing it because we can. Well, I'm certainly not doing it just because I can; there are a whole lot of other meaningful reasons for doing it as mentioned in the OP. It's because his consequences are toothless. I mean really... he cant hurt you, so you can do whatever you want... pretty much consequence free. But... consequences will come. Ones that cannot be avoided or minimized. So tread that path lightly.
sally4sara Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 This is the most retarded and sexist thread ever. Sorry, but it's true. I wholeheartedly agree. Men cheating = biologically enevitable Women cheating = just wrong It sucks either way, but an entire article citing reasons that can be applied to both genders as being only reasons women cheat is absurd. Like no guy has ever cheated for any of these reasons.
sumdude Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 For both men and women.... Because they want to... and because they can
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