ronx7 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I'm in a new relationship, and I really like this girl. We've only been together for three weeks. The other day she tells me that she and two other friends are going to rent a place together. I didn't think anything of it until I learned that one of the friends is some older guy. I can't handle that so I'm going talk to her, but more than likely we'll just break up. I'm I wrong to make such a big deal? Any solution to this? thank ya
TigerCub Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 why so quick to jump to the dump option? Maybe the guy is just a friend. Maybe he's gay. You didn't say much about this guy, but it seems like you're just jumping to conclusions so quickly. If you like this girl, why don't you just keep dating her until there is a real reason to get all worked up and jealous about this guy roomate.
Lee725 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I am with TigerCub, i would find out more about the situation before dumping her, you never know, he might be gay, even if he isnt, relationships are nothing without trust! let her move in, see what happens, see how she behaves once she moves in there, this will give you a better indication of her relationship with him (or hopefully lack thereof hopefully), You might eb jumping to conclusions over nothing. You have only been with her 3 weeks, it is not years into it - at this point she is still entitled to make decisions without consulting you.
PinkKittyKat Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Give it a bit of time there, man. There is not necessarily anything fishy going on....When I first moved out I moved in with guy roommates, one was single and the other was dating a friend of mine. I had a boyfriend at the time, and he was fine with it. He trusted me and ended up becoming good buddies with one of the guys. It was all platonic. I lived there for almost 2 years. My group of friends has always been very co-ed....we don't put much stock in "girls can't hang out with friends who are guys". I'm not saying that she COULDN'T POSSIBLY have something going on, just you should bring it up in a non-confrontational way with her. She'll be less likely to feel attacked that way. No girl wants her bf to say the equivalent of: "You moving in with a male friend obviously means you're going to screw him, you filthy whore".
EYECANDY000 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Give it some time and see what happens. If you start to become suspicious of her chearting with the male then bring it to her attention. But if nothing has happened except for her moving in then let it be.
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