thekid55 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 My story in short. We were together for 2 years in high school. She is two years younger than me. I went off to college in September. She ended the relationship in about mid October because she wants to experience high school. I was a wreck for about a month over this and I'm totally not over it. I really don't think I'll ever be over it totally. We had a great relationship. Since then, we have not had a face to face meeting even though I've tried to initiate one. She has hooked up with numerous guys and things of that nature. She has a new boyfriend who is a scum bag who she seems to adore for some odd reason. I've gone NC for about 2 weeks. I've felt a lot better. Today, I went back to my high school for an informational college meeting. She was there to listen to me speak. She ended up texting me saying "Hey whats up?" after the presentation. I responded back with short messages. I got to see old teachers, including her dad. Her dad and I were extremely close when her and I dated. We sat down and talked about everything. He is on my side with all of this. Her and I work in the same shopping plaza. I didn't work tonight and she did. Here's the text messaging convo: Her: Hey. are you working tonight. Me: Nah. Her: Oh. My dad and I stopped by tonight. I asked some kid in there if you were working. Me: Nah. Not tonight. I work tomorrow 2-10. Her: Maybe I'll get Zach to bring me over. I didn't respond to that. It's bullcrap. Zach is the name of her new boyfriend. I know that she wouldn't get him to drive over there. Why would she say this to me or even come over to where I work? To play games? Or just to see if I still care since I haven't really given her any attention recently? Thoughts?
Lee725 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 To make you jealous. You have not really spoke with her much lately. She wants to think that you still care and that you are still in love with her. Dont give her the satisfaction, it is a game .... it is called "fishing", and she is looking for a bite.
s_n_d Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I think shes trying to make you jealous. Its the only reason for that. Wow. I cant believe someone would do that just to get back at someone. Immature.
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