soulseeker Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Been dating this guy, who I think is so great, for just over two months. About a month ago, we were trying to fix the modem on his computer and I saw that he had a myspace shortcut on his desktop. I ask him point blank if he has a ms account. He says point blank, no. This past weekend my friend was logged into her account and I used it to see if this guy Im seeing has an account. No lectures on snooping please, I've been lied to in the past about this. Well guess what, he has one. When I found it, the last time he logged in was in July, I checked it again this week and he had logged in. It is completely barebones, with just his name, horoscope sign, and single status. Also, he has no friends listed on there. Why would he lie about this? I dont care if he has one. Just pisses me off to learn that he's lied about something to my face. He told me he has trust issues, so the irony is kind of hilarious to me. He also told me he loved me on several occasions. And I do love him, but lying is not ok with me. Is this a big deal?
Nevermind Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Just guessing, but could he be a total noob who doesn't really know what myspace is? Maybe he made the account in july, forgot about it, was distracted when you asked or didn't understand it and realised what it was when you left. He checked it out again, didn't find it interesting (hence the empty page) and never told you about it. Anyway, ask him. If he has trust issues he'll understand where you are coming from. It's not a big deal to me, since you didn't read his e-mail or did anything to break his privacy. You could've found him on myspace any other way, too.
Lucasarts Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i usually say i dont have a myspace, but i think i do...tho i NEVER USE IT AND NEVER WILL I HATE THAT DAMNED THING but yeah i guess if he has NO FRIENDS and NOTHING new on his profile than it really isnt a big deal (he probably has it so he can look at other peoples profiles and pics IF he actually cares enough to do that) anyways, its not a big problem, just say that next time there isnt a need to lie about something stupid like that.
SeraBella Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 he has an account, but doesn't really have much of a page. most people i know who say they don't have myspace still do have a login to see pictures and stuff once in a while. i wouldn't consider this a lie. if there was info there, and friends, etc...then you'd have an issue. at this point, i think you should let it go.
THE THRONE Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 It's a big deal if you make it one. THE THRONE has a myspace page that he hasn't logged into since 4 days after myspace was launched. So yeah, just leave it alone and go on about your business.
Cupcake Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 He probably didn't use the account often. When you asked: "Do you have a MS account" He actually heard: "Do you use MS?" And he answered no because he doesn't use it. It is easy to forget that you signed up for online accounts because there are so many of them. I think you should keep your eyes open. But don't be suspicious about this. You should mention to him that you saw the icon on his desktop. See what he has to say about it. If you feel comfortable, let him know that you saw the page and he recently logged into it. Communicate kindly and efficiantly to prevent misunderstandings.
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