Beauty28 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Ok, Right now I have a headache and I don't want to go into the long shpel about how me and my guy met. But right now... He wants me to come see him in Miami ( I live in Denver) and I've been doing all I can to get my financial situation better so that maybe one day I can move closer to him. I just don't have the money to come see him and he is a lawyer who just opened a business so he can't come see me right now. I just need some advice because I really do care for him and I feel like this one little problem of not being about to visit each other will break us.
TMichaels Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Okay, so he can't come to see you because he's just launched his own business. Is he unaware of *your* financial situation? If he is aware, why is he: a) Expecting you to be able to afford the cost of a ticket? b) Not paying for your plane fare? c) At the very least offering to split the cost? Best, Livadia
Els Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Erm sorry if I missed something out but.. Wouldn't it be easy peasy if he just forked the cost of this ticket since he seems to not have the monetary issues that you do... and you pay for the next if you can afford it by then or something?
Author Beauty28 Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 Yep, You are all right. I guess this is my first time being in a situation like this and to tell you the truth, I just briefly told him about my financial situation. But splitting the cost does sound like an awesome idea. I guess I didn't think about that. Thanks.
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