watchconcierge Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Ok... So I wrote the thread below about my exes working together to plan so my current ex can see me tomorrow. Now... I'm extremely angry that my ex and my sister (her best friend) and my brother in law will be hanging out tomorrow and I feel like it's been rubbed in my face. So my problem is this. I have an audio recording of my wife and I talking about my wife sneaking into my sister's email over something like a year and a half and telling me bad things that my sister was saying about me. On this tape also is my wife talking about watching my brother in law masturbate in front of her and keeping it from my sister. I have an email written to my sister right now. I have the file attached. I want to hurt all of them and make it so they won't be friends. And I want to better my relationship with my sister. I want her to know that I wouldn't have been as angry if my ex hadn't been sneaking into her email and telling me things that she was saying about me. I feel like it's wrong to send an email like this, but I'm just about to pull the proverbial trigger. Is it okay to send it? Does my sister have a right to know this? Am I only doing this out of anger? Can anything good possibly come of this? Please help!
Author watchconcierge Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 I'm sorry... The title got truncated somehow... It said "Please help me!..."
Ronni_W Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 I really don't understand your post -- too many "exes" or something. But you already know not to send that email, and you already know it's only out of anger. May I suggest a 15-minute outdoor walk, instead?
PinkRibbon Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Look 2 wrongs don't make a right. Do not send the email. Make yourself a better person than your ex and do not stoop to all this garbage. Cool off and rethink anything you do right now. Do not burn bridges with your fmaily right now.
Author watchconcierge Posted January 5, 2008 Author Posted January 5, 2008 How did you get that recording? Ok... I didn't do it. I talked to a couple of people on the phone without giving specifics and read a couple of comments here. I really, truly think that simply writing the message about it allowed me to dissipate some of my anger. I made the recording while on a call with my ex on Christmas Eve. I still feel angry, but at least I didn't blow up the situation.
Lishy Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 You will blow it though as that is what you want From what I have read of you so far you sound very narcisistic and it wont be long before you blow and send that recording I am glad I am not your ex or sister!
Lishy Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 I bet you lead the convo with your ex so that she spoke about that stuff with your sister's hubby and you was willing to send that and turn your sister's world upside down just because you was angry! How bad is that? And on a side note, why did you allow your sister's husband to masterbate infront of your wife? Are you not as guilty as him seeing as it IS your sister? WHat was you hoping to achieve? You want everyone to be as miserable as you? You know your wife is loose as you have had threesomes with her and she liked watching her best friends husband toss off with you. Why do you expect anything from her she obviously has no morals at this moment in her life!
Lee725 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 i dont know about the laws where you are, but here what you are proposing is illegal, you can not record anyone without their explicit permission, therefore if you send this and these people are the way you have portrayed - expect a lawsuit from somewhere.
Lishy Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Sod the lawsuit, he wants to send that to his own sister! How sick is that? and all because his sister and his ex and his sister's hubby was hanging out together and he got jealous!
Lee725 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Don't want to start another debate but i just read back over the thread that got closed..... I dont really dont know what to make of it all now....??? Hi Lishy, no doubt you have too, but i have seen some pretty messed up stuff between brothers and sisters! - Who needs enemys when a relative is peed at you?, it's a whole new playing field! LOL.... watchconcierge, if you want any long term resolution from this situation, step back, take a breath, pull away from everything as much as you can, go NC where you can and perhaps later try to resolve some of the issues with a clearer head. Dont throw fuel on an open fire because the explosion will take you out with it.
BetrayedMM Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 (edited) The audio recording is perfectly legal as long as one party knew they were being recorded. You can record a conversation between yourself and another person without their knowledge, because you know you're being recorded. There is nothing illegal about that. Sorry, just wanted to clear that up. There is no law against recording your own conversations. Is it any different in Australia? Edited January 6, 2008 by BetrayedMM
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