boop-oop-a-doop Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 There's a guy who said that he had feelings for me in the past, and he's seemed to indicate that he still does recently. (And frankly, nearly every time we spend any time together.) However, I've not responded so far because of a few concerns I had. I've carefully considered the situation over the last several months, though, and I think we should give it a shot. I'm going out of town next week, and I was wondering if I should tell him of my feelings before I leave. That way, if for some reason I've been misreading his many signals, I'll have time away. If I'm right, then we'll both have time to consider and adjust. Do you think it's a good idea?
Tripper Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Well, if you don't tell him, luv, before you go then when?? When you come back?? What's the diff??.. If you both have feelings for each other, you can either pussyfoot around hoping for the other person to make a move or put you heart out on your sleeve and go for it.. Personally, I'm a "go for it guy", so I say the sooner the better you tell him the sooner you either form a relationship or you move on..
Jordane Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Tell him when you come back. It's annoying when someone tells you something that's a big deal to them or you and then you can't talk to them about it or do anything about it right away. A week won't kill you, just wait and tell him then.
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