confuse80 Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 man you the one who broke up with her, and you want her to make her move to come back to you after ONE email? are you for real? if you want her back, its YOU who need to work it out, YOU who need to make the move, YOU who need to make ALL the move, call her, go to her house, email her, sms her, do whatever you can, not waiting for her to respond after one email. Listen to us females, we know each other better and the way you trying to get her back is not trying at all. YOU need to be the one who BEG her to come back. Other than that it will be impossible to get her back, trust me in this one man, because I will speak from my own personal experience. I dont buy men's word anymore, it has to be MORE than words (more than words to say you love her!). meanwhile good luck. remember this case you hurt her, you need to heal her pain.
Author jdeedee Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 I am so confused. Everything in my gut is telling me that I shouldn't do that and now I am being told by everyone I should. What is going to happen when I drive to her house and see her, I don't know that she wants to ever see me again. Aggh. This is so confusing.
Ronni_W Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 I am so confused. Everything in my gut is telling me that I shouldn't do that and now I am being told by everyone I should. What is going to happen when I drive to her house and see her, I don't know that she wants to ever see me again. Aggh. This is so confusing. Okay -- RIGHT HERE...start learning to TRUST YOUR OWN GUT!!! Do not blindly follow others' advice, no matter how well-meaning they are and no matter if there's a small part of you that can talk yourself into it -- that type of thinking and behaviour is exactly what got you here and what is going to stop you from being able to really TRUST YOUR OWN SELF!!! Like any new habit, it is tough to get started (just as it is tough to let go of old habits.) You are strong enough to develop and strengthen new habits that will serve you better for the rest of your life.
jerbear Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 I am so confused. Everything in my gut is telling me that I shouldn't do that and now I am being told by everyone I should. What is going to happen when I drive to her house and see her, I don't know that she wants to ever see me again. Aggh. This is so confusing. I think your own instincts say one thing but others say another. Here is a different perspective; dumpers wanting the dumpee back; the dumper has to pursue. Usually the dumpee wanting the dumper back is another story. Follow your own feelings and path. LS is just a place for opinions.
Jordane Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 You have to really do what YOU feel is right. Don't let what people say sway you too much. The previous poster was right...listening to others got you here in the first place. I don't know why your friend was so adamant about wanting you guys to break up in the first place with this girl though...did he actually have a point? It's really hard to give advice when we just know the aftermath of YOUR part of the story. I think we need a little more background here.
Author jdeedee Posted January 6, 2008 Author Posted January 6, 2008 My friend was upset I wasn't spending time with her and had personality clashes with my ex so he obviously didn't think she was good for me. I don't know what the hell im doing anymore. I just need to worry about my own well being and if she replies to my email great. Sigh, today sucks.
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