2sunny Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 didn't take long for him to do it as our divorce was only final this past october...
dropdeadlegs Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Are you? 1)happy 2)hurt 3) indifferent 4) none of the above (insert your own feeling here)
dropdeadlegs Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 I wish I had included relieved, as I think that's what I would be feeling.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 I'm so sorry to you, I mean that isn't long AT ALL. No decency on his part to at least wait. I would be hurt and annoyed. But you can't really focus on it too much. Don't worry about what he's doing. Do your best to focus on what you're doing. Easier said than done, I know, but it's the best thing none the less.
Author 2sunny Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 i really wasn't that surprised - but more angry at the hurtful way he had my boys keep it a secret and then the way he told me was downright meanspirited. i responded with "i'm happy for you - but i feel sorry for her" he doesn't know how to be faithful and i'm sure she doesn't realise it...
ElvenPriestess Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Dragging your boys into it like that wasn't fair to them at all. And telling him you're happy for him shows that you're a much bigger person than he will ever be. Telling him you're sorry for her is a reflection of your experiences and much deserved since you know how he is in a marriage.
blind_otter Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 That's gotta suck, sunny. Sorry you had to hear it like that. I can't believe he couldn't even be civil about getting remarried.
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