caringmanforyou Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 if your girlfriend is away in another country for a month on buisness and has not emailed or called you ...for a week but claimed in her last email it was because she didnt get service and had no time and in the mean time .. an ex contacted you that youve missed for a very long time and think your in love with .. is it fair to tell your ex how you are feeling to get a response .. before your current girlfriend who you also love a great deal?
s_n_d Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 who do you love more. You know the answer, not us strangers. But go for the one you love most.
Lee725 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 (edited) what are you going to do if you tell your EX how you feel about her and she rejects you? Are you going to tell your current GF that you laid your heart out on the line to your ex and she rejected you so now you are going to stay with her. (the current GF). I hope you would and accept the consequences of it. It should not matter that your current GF has not contacted you - except for the no service / busy message (dont take this the wrong way, that in itself is a little strange, have you contacted her at all?), it should not matter in the sense that if you are not happy with your current GF, break it off with her, then go looking to someone else. It is not fair to go off expressing your feelings to your ex while you are in a relationship with someone else, no matter how many issues are in the current relationship. My ex just did this to me (with with me and trying to work out what went wrong between him and her & whether they stood another chance - my shoes: the rebound), and i can tell you from the otherside (your current GF's side) it is not good at all. Are you thinking that your current GF is off overseas doing something she should not be and that is the reason she has not contacted you? Is that why you are considering doing this? Edited January 4, 2008 by Lee725
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