caringmanforyou Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 can you be in love with two people and once and how can you go about choosing which one was right for you
Cobra_X30 Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 can you be in love with two people and once and how can you go about choosing which one was right for you Nope. You can have feelings for two poeple at once... but that's not love. If you have to choose between them, then you've already messed up. One at a time. Remember your obligations!
Ronni_W Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 can you be in love with two people and once and how can you go about choosing which one was right for you I think we choose based on what is most important to us at any given time -- it is the BEST choice (not right or wrong) to get our current needs met. I think. Different people offer different things so, in my mind, yes, we can appreciate one person for this set of "good stuff" and another, for that set.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 I don't know if you can have a sensual love for more than person. I see no reason why you cannot. However, if I was in this situation, I would ask myself, "why would I need two people to satisfy my love needs?" Maybe neither is right for you.
Lizzie60 Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 Yes I think we can love 2 people.. but in different ways... we may love one for such and such qualities and the other for other qualities.. the best of both world is to have them both at once... If you have to choose or want to choose: take the smartest, richest of the 2...
blind_otter Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 I don't think you can truely LOVE two people at the same time. I think you can lust for/have feelings for/deeply care about two different people at the same time. But IMO love is something that comes with time and committment between two individuals. You can't foster that kind of intimacy with two people simultaneously. Unless you have a lot of free time.
Meaplus3 Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 can you be in love with two people and once and how can you go about choosing which one was right for you I think you can love two people at once, but in different way's. The one that is right for you? I think you will just know deep in your heart if your in touch with your innerself. Good luck. Have patience! AP:)
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