jennieC Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 ive been hearing this name mehow over the net and his telling about how to grab a girl easily.. im not sure on what his telling but heres the video.. what do you think? anyways im new here!
Dynamo Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 Depends what you want, I think. All those "pickup artist" things are really just for one night stands - they might help you get a girl at a party, but if you are looking for an actual meaningful RELATIONSHIP and not just cheap sex, then it's best to just be yourself and not try to plaster over who you are with cheesy gimmicks from a self-proclaimed "pickup master". Stuff like that is targeted directly towards desperate guys. I have no clue if it works or not, but I just don't think it's a good start to forming a relationship with someone if you are simply following instructions out of a book rather then being yourself. I will say though that the body language bit he glossed over is important, you don't want to look defensive. I've been told that I look like I'm "waiting for something bad to happen" because I have a tendency to cross my arms alot.
Author jennieC Posted January 3, 2008 Author Posted January 3, 2008 thanks for quick reply.. i agree on that!
Florida Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 huh? what spam?im not spamming Why are you a girl asking about how to pick up girls??? Anyhoo....
Author jennieC Posted January 3, 2008 Author Posted January 3, 2008 (edited) thats why im asking you guyz for your opinions.. coz i think that wont work for me! im sorry if i sound like im spamming. but its not what you think.. Edited January 3, 2008 by jennieC
halfarock Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 thats why im asking you guyz for your opinions.. coz i think that wont work for me! im sorry if i sound like im spamming. but its not what you think.. I’ve read up quite a bit on the whole pick-up artist thing and have watched a few of these guys in action. I don’t think that they succeed with any and every women like they claim. It seems to work mostly with a limited number of women, mostly those women of low self esteem who regularly go to clubs/bars to meet men. I get the feeling that it’s best use is in selling pick-up technique books and whatnot to socially inept guys rather than as an effective tool to get women.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 What Mehow is saying is to exude confidence and makes someone like you because you made them feel good. That applies to many types of relationships in business or the business of getting the girl. An appealing guy with a great smile and a sincere interest in me is a sure fire way to get me to listen.....that's it.
Jilly Bean Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 I’ve read up quite a bit on the whole pick-up artist thing and have watched a few of these guys in action. I don’t think that they succeed with any and every women like they claim. It seems to work mostly with a limited number of women, mostly those women of low self esteem who regularly go to clubs/bars to meet men. I get the feeling that it’s best use is in selling pick-up technique books and whatnot to socially inept guys rather than as an effective tool to get women. Agreed! There is this whole thing they sell called "negative hitting", where a guy will insult a girl to get her defensive and WANTING his approval. Inexperienced or insecure women would fall for this.
Author jennieC Posted January 5, 2008 Author Posted January 5, 2008 thank you people for sharing your ideas! yeah! i agree on Jilly Bean most guyz do that to make the girls like challenging theme.
Legend Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Agreed! There is this whole thing they sell called "negative hitting", where a guy will insult a girl to get her defensive and WANTING his approval. Inexperienced or insecure women would fall for this. It works quite well too....
Florida Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Agreed! There is this whole thing they sell called "negative hitting", where a guy will insult a girl to get her defensive and WANTING his approval. Inexperienced or insecure women would fall for this. Jilly I googled this but couldn't find more info than what you described- do you mind detailing/describing this a bit? I've heard ofthe guy kidding around with other girls in the group and ignoring the one he really wants to hit on, but this is news! Spill the beans please!
Legend Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 it's how guys get the girls when they treat them so bad, because she constantly seeks the approval...get it?
Florida Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 it's how guys get the girls when they treat them so bad, because she constantly seeks the approval...get it? I get it, but from what Jilly said I thought it would be more like a guy *joking* with the woman she is chunky, for example, then she would say: "What? No I'm not!!! Wait-you really think that?? Are you serious" then he would smirk and half heartedly answer : "Of course I'm kidding" then the woman would keep asking him if he meant it or not. So that is effectively putting all the power or whatever in his hands to make her feel better or not. But I was wondering if that was it, or was there more, that's what I was curious about.
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