mrbrdhkr Posted June 12, 2003 Posted June 12, 2003 A year ago I met this woman who now as I did then am totally in love with. The problem is this I have 2 children who believe I should dedicate my whole existance to and she has 4 who know only the man she is divorcing as there dad(which 2 are) the other 2 know him as that because their real father does not know they exist. The problem is my children have been making life rough and she does not like them because they ar ewhiney brats. Her children would like their "dad" back even though he cheated on her and there are photo's of the abuse he inflicted. The scenerio is our kids are conflicting with this for their happiness and we both love our children. The x is back after 6 months of no support playing super man and making her feel guilty. I cannot help but feel that guilt is not the reason to stay with someone even for children and be miserable teh rest of everyones life.
Bill Posted June 13, 2003 Posted June 13, 2003 Think harder... Posted by mrbrdhkr: she does not like them because they ar ewhiney brats That's one hell of a comment for her to make towards your kids. She would not be with her ex if she didn't want to be. You need to make the choice whether to lose her or try to win her from her ex.
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