Vanquish Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 So im slowly coming to the realization that my girlfriends supposed best friend is frankly a total bitch outside of the fact that shes my girlfriends best friend. I never really realized it cause i didn't see her much at first only heard about her through other people and my gf whos extremely open and comfortable with me. Hmm well i guess where this whole idea of shes a bitch started on the fact that shes a waitress and a fairly decent restaurant that me and my gf attended. Now, me and my gf share expenses so we can go out more. No harm in that. But it was my GF's night to buy dinner and her best friend just happens to be the one who is our waitress. Ok, fine no biggie just play it hi act nice the usual. So dinner goes great and my gf gets the bil from her best friend and she pays, leaves her a tip. Well a couple days later i get a text from my gf that mentioned her best friend saying something about me, well i asked just to see what her beef was and apparently she called me a broke ass mooch that can't even buy my own girlfriend dinner. Well this pissed me off cause we share expenses so i asked if my GF defended me and she said she did and the fact that we share expenses. So that started the ball rolling, fast foward to a few nights later my gf tells me that her best friend just contracted genital herpies from sleeping with 2 different guys in one night. Well by this time i know my gf's best friend is screwy so im just like wow what a dumb whore in my mind and i told my girlfriend how goofy her best friend is and thats how i feel about her. And that if my girlfriends best friend ever decides to belittle me like that again behind my back we're gunna have problems between me and my gf's best friend. Well aside from the herpies incident my gf's best friend had an abortion 3 months earlier that my gf paid for because her "best" friend couldnt cover the cost at the time. Well i dunno if she ever got paid back but fast foward to new years. We're drinking playing waterfall the usual stuff and losing and i jokingly said you guys are getting beat now or something and i got socked in the eye by my girlfriends best friend then called a wuss not 10 minutes later by her herpies infected boyfriend. I couldn't handle this 2nd time of disrespectful bs but i kept my mouth shut for my gf's sake. So we went to bed that night on some ****ty mattress while my gf's best friend got the king sized bed. And i let my gf know how pisssed i was in a stern swearing moderate tone that her best friend is a disrespectful b*tch and that i love my gf but i cannot stand how her best friend acts or treats other people. Me and my GF are going to unis soon and her best friend is gunna be at least an hour away from us. So what do i do? Am i right to not care to hang out with my gf and her best friend anymore? Her best friend is such a sh*tty influence and i've told my gf how i feel about her but ladies what would that do for you? If a guy you truely loved got disrespected on numerous times by your best friend what would that mean to you? By the way i've never once said ****ty things about her best friend other then defending myself or my position to my girlfriend.
Lizzie60 Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 I have to agree that your gf's best friend is out of line... She obviously doesn't like you... but I am afraid there is not much you can do about it. What your gf has done for her best friend is none of your business... she doesn't owe you any explanations.. it's her money... period. You have to either, shut up and swallow her bitchiness... or have a serious talk to your gf... not against her best friend just how she is treating you... No need to declare war to her best friend... she'll win... I would NEVER EVER leave my best friend for any man on this planet... Love comes and goes... Friendship is for life... Remember that.
EYECANDY000 Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 the mistake is your gf going back and forth telling you what she is saying about you. The friend pretty much plays the role as the friend. she is on the outside looking in and making sure that her closest friend don't get hurt. As far as her personal business that shouldn't concern you,has absolutely nothing to do with you. Next time your gf is attempting to tell you about her friend and what she said about you I would just tell her your not interested.I mean you may actually have a lot in common with the friend and are capable of having a cordial conversation with her, but you will never know if your gf keeps up the confusion with you two..do yourself a favor and stay your distance from the best friend and definatly her bf
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