beetlebum Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Theres a guy in one of my classes at uni and i think he may have a crush on me but im not sure. He seems to be really nervous around me sometimes and other times when we are in a group he always has a big smiley grin. Once when i smiled at him he made this ahhh noise like he thought my smile was cute or something... sounds strange i know i often catch him watching me in classes and he doesnt look away usually, he will either comtinue to stare or smile problem is this guy always seems to have girls around him, flirting as he is popular and good looking. I get the impression he is used to girls throwing themselves at him when we try and talk to each other i always get nervous and drop things, so i know i need to get over that if its going to get anywhere should i let this guy make a move or should i attempt to do something about it? Is it better if a girl plays a bit hard to get?
EYECANDY000 Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 What would be the purpose of playing hard to get? Your not even sure if he likes you or wants to be to know you further. Start up a conversation about the calss you guys are taking
johnnyj Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Everything in your mail was going good until the part, " problem is this guy always seems to have girls around him". If this is the case, he is probably a player and likes to flirt. He may not actually be nervous around you, maybe he is just pretending or trying to act silly. Sounds like a flirter... watch out for those guys. My wife gets those kind of guys hitting on her too.. needless to say, I don't care for them. If you are really into him and want to hook up, then just let him do the work. Pretend you aren't interested and let him do something special to get your interest. Otherwise, leave him with his ladies.
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