subliminal_kush Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 hi everybody. so here's the backstory, i am 22 and my girlfriend is 35, we met a little over a year ago at a job we both worked at. it started out as her wanting a strictly sexual relationship, which i was all for, but then it became something more really fast. i have not had a whole lot of girlfriends in my short time, but i really feel like i love this girl. she got a new apartment up here about 2 months after we met and i moved in less than a month later. over the past year, we have had a lot of fun together, we do EVERYTHING together. all of her friends are my friends, i don't have any friends of my own. we have talked of having kids, moving to another state, owning a business together. i think i really do love this girl, but the longer we are together the more i become confused. i can't help but to wonder if one of the other girls i see out there is supposed to be the one, i haven't dated many girls, how can i be sure? on top of that she seems to be changing a lot. we have gone through losing jobs and some rough times, but she just seems so depressed all the time, all she does is look at the negative things and worry about the bad things that could happen, i do nothing but try and reassure her things are going to be ok an it doesn't seem like she listens. i have told her i think she needs to talk to someone and she says shes scared and doesnt know if she can do it. how do i go about making her happy? sometimes it seems as though the only time we argue is when we try too hard to please each other and she gets upset that i dont want to do something anymore because she didnt want to do it. i feel like the things i do dont make her happy anymore. i really want to be with this girl, but i can't get these thoughts out of my head, can someone please help?
EYECANDY000 Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Welcome to Loveshack Subliminal Kush!!! If you truely love this girl and want to be with her , then thats who you should focus on. I think a lot of people feel like there is always someone else out there that may be a better match for them, which there may be.. But if you have absolutely no problem with this girl except for minor relationship problems, that all couples go through, stay with her. Of she is depressed about losing her job, and times are becoming hard. do things to make her feel good and appreciated. Any normal person who is going through hard times , it puts a strain on themselves as well as a relationship!
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