Lishy Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 We broke up 4 days before xmas and I was so upset He cancelled christmas with me and my family because I could not come to his work 'do' as my mum was too ill to babysit for me. I was so upset with him but I dont miss him I know I loved him and previous times when we broke up (always over his immature behaviours) i have been inconsolable, not able to go to work, not able to sleep but this time it is like a light has gone off and I dont care! Is this normal?
curiousnycgirl Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 I think this time you were reconciled to the fact that this was not the guy for you. You were probably ready for the break up. I'm so happy for you because in most cases we are not really ready for the break up and we mourn the loss. Happy 2008 for Lishy!!! :bunny:
Krytie TV Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Wow, you're posting this all over the place. Who are you trying to convince, us or yourself?
Author Lishy Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 I posted in dating by mistake as it is not dating so i reposted in breakups Calm down lol
s_n_d Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Good for you. Sounds like your already over this guy. If only everyone was this lucky..
Author Lishy Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 The reason I posted here is because we have broken up a few times and I have felt awful, i.e crying and depressed but this time I feel nothing! I think I am fearful that it will hit me one day and I will crumble! Right now I am shocked at how nonchalant I feel about this!
Pyro Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 We broke up 4 days before xmas and I was so upset He cancelled christmas with me and my family because I could not come to his work 'do' as my mum was too ill to babysit for me. I was so upset with him but I dont miss him I know I loved him and previous times when we broke up (always over his immature behaviours) i have been inconsolable, not able to go to work, not able to sleep but this time it is like a light has gone off and I dont care! Is this normal? To me its normal because after my ex cheated on me, I got over her fast, but to others it may not be so normal because for many it takes a long time to get over someone. Kudos to you for staying strong through it all.
Mustang Sally Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Sounds like good riddance to bad rubbish, Lishy. Good for you!
Author Lishy Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 I wouldnt say he is bad rubbish hon He just acts too childish and I do not want another child thanks lol
Touche Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 I think it's easier now because you realize that you're absolutely in the right here. He's a child. And you''re clearly ready and deserving of a MAN. You're through second-guessing yourself. I applaud your strength, Lishy.
Author Lishy Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 You have hit the nail on the head Touche! I AM in the right and whichever way I turn it I am still not in the wrong at all here! My strength comes from my past experience when I was weak weak weak, never again though! x
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