Rowen Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 I feel bad.. but not really. My ex shows interest for 3 weeks, asks to meet me on 4 different occawsions... says her bf is awfull, he hits her, is boring and doesn't lik ebeing around him. Then last night she talks to me VIA text, then I ask her what she is doing the next day and she suddenly dissapears! WHY!?>!?! Ugh................. THis is unbelievably frusterating. Most people tell me she's confused and to give her time. But man.. after the shinnanigans the other night with her texting me and thanking me for being there for her when her bf abused her.... what now...... she wants to hang out, then when I ask what she';s doing the next day she dissapears! It seems like she does want to break up with her abusive bf and get back withe me.. but she's scared... just scared for some reason.
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Rowen, How do you know she is telling you the truth? Did she break up with you? Cheat on you? I think she may be lying to you to keep you in her life as her current boyfriend is not giving her everything she wants in the relationship. She is texting you wanting sympathy and getting from you what her boyfriend doesnt give her.
Author Rowen Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 Rowen, How do you know she is telling you the truth? Did she break up with you? Cheat on you? I think she may be lying to you to keep you in her life as her current boyfriend is not giving her everything she wants in the relationship. She is texting you wanting sympathy and getting from you what her boyfriend doesnt give her. i dont know. Yes she broke up with me. From what I know didn't cheaat on me What do you advise I do?
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 I think she may be lying to you to keep you in her life as her current boyfriend is not giving her everything she wants in the relationship. She is texting you wanting sympathy and getting from you what her boyfriend doesnt give her. ^ - Thats what I think. If her new current boyfriend is/was abusing her she should go to the police about it. Is there anyone you know who can go see her? Like a friend of hers or her family who you can talk to and tell them what she has said to you (him hitting her, provide the proof of her conversations). They can go see if she has any marks on her face, if its confirmed that she does have marks/cuts on her face then the cops need to be involved. If she doesnt have any evidence/proof then she is lying to keep you as a back up in her life. If its confirmed that she does not have any marks on her face then she is a lying rat, stop talking to & contacting her If she does have marks on her face then its best to take it to another level and get help from the police.
s_n_d Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 I know you still care about her. Id say you should advise her to get out of the current abusive relationship shes in.
Author Rowen Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 I know you still care about her. Id say you should advise her to get out of the current abusive relationship shes in. It seems she is looking for an out... but i think she is scared.. maybe he's threatening her? I say that beucase of the "im optimistic it was an accident" comment.... like "you tell people it was an accident..or.. " you know.. god im concerned for her. The good thing is last I heard she is at her mum's house again.. I really hope she actually is.
s_n_d Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Maybe you should call her and see how shes doing.
Author Rowen Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 Maybe you should call her and see how shes doing. Yeah ive thought about that. But then again.. she told me she was at home and "fine" .. though with her "fine" means.... "not good" with any girl come on. She gets hit, says it might have been accidental and shes fine....hmmmm
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