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Bringing things back to how they were?


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As I've posted before, my boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot lately. And, I've recently had a depression/anxiety relapse and have started taking medication again (which was before the arguing started, and had nothing to do with him).

 

Lately we just don't seem as close, we don't talk as often, and rarely hang out (although we're both home for winter break and he's been spending a lot of time out with friends that he hasn't seen in a long time. they spend a lot of time at the bars and i'm still 5 months away from turning 21). We spent New Years together (but only after I insisted that it was important to me, because his original plans were to go to the bar with his friends). He was extremely disappointed at first, but we ended up having a really nice time together. It was as if nothing had ever happened for the one night. But, today things are starting to feel distant again. He doesn't tell me he loves me as often, and isn't as interested in talking to me as he was before.

 

I know (as I've posted before) he was a little weirded out by my anxiety and need for medication, and is sort of blaming himself. He is very stubborn, and refuses to believe that he still makes me really happy. Could this be adding to the distance?

 

I'm wondering what I can do to rekindle our relationship, and maybe bring things back to how they were before. Or, should I wait the next two weeks out until we go back to school and see if there's a difference?

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