BlueEyedSarah Posted January 1, 2008 Posted January 1, 2008 You need to tell her to leave you the F alone. Forget all that kid stuff, man up and get some balls. No he doesnt because he should remain in nc with the ex rather than telling her to f off and leave him alone, he would have to start at day 1 of nc after that.
Florida Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 (edited) She has told me on a number of occassions that I am the most special person in her life and she cares about me tremendously. Her parents and her don't get along so well so I was the one she always came to for support and advice even after the split. No you're not, repeat that to yourself no matter how much her words meant to you. Nobody would tear out the heart of the most special person in their life by cheating on them, and decieving them. Hey-here is an example-say someone loves their friends, they are so special that they get their houses burned, bank accounts emptied and slashed tires. They *know* they are special because I said so. They say "florida-why would you burn our houses , steal our money and slash our tires?" I say "oh girls-I just needed to burn the houses and rob you-no offense-I just felt like it-but you know you are the most special people in my life". They all look relieved, because I said that. It confuses them, but somehow they understand me. So, stupid example aside- you need to re-format your thinking, because you are not the most special person to her, people do not treat special people like that. She is just an attention wh*re trying to keep you hooked. Randuff-I know that you have people who think you are fantastic and special-but she is lying, even if she is not aware of it. Which is all the more sad for her idea of what love is. Edited January 2, 2008 by Florida
Author randuff Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 Rejected the call once again. Why is it so tempting just to answer and say Hi.
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Its tempting because of the feelings involved. Why is she texting and calling when she is with someone? Oh thats right...once a cheater always a cheater.
Florida Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Its tempting because of the feelings involved. Why is she texting and calling when she is with someone? Oh thats right...once a cheater always a cheater. Because her new BF left the house for 15 minutes and she really needs validation. Oh-and also because then when her new BF gets mad at why her ex is calling her (she won't dare say she called him first) she will respond sweetly and wide eyed "I don't know-I guess he is still in love with me" so her new BF thinks she is some hot commodity that all the guys are beating down her door. Yet completely unaware that she is instigating the contact with Randuff. Good for you R-keep up the NC!
Lee725 Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 It gets easier and easier to hit the reject button. For me atleast it also gives a sense of power. Keep up the good work, it is hard but each time you do it, you will get that little bit stronger and hopefully less and less you will care about what she might have to say.
Author randuff Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 Made it through the day not responding to her 2 texts and 2 phone calls! I feel good, but sad also. On a side note I talked on IM to a girl I met for 2 hours then chatted on the phone for another hour. We have so much in common and the conversation was great. She is intelligent (graduated college at 18) funny, giggly, seems honest and not to mention smokin hot!!! (She is all tatted out and that a huge turn on for me) She also said I was hot!! woohoo We will chat again tomorrow and I feel good about myself again.
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Made it through the day not responding to her 2 texts and 2 phone calls! I feel good, but sad also. On a side note I talked on IM to a girl I met for 2 hours then chatted on the phone for another hour. We have so much in common and the conversation was great. She is intelligent (graduated college at 18) funny, giggly, seems honest and not to mention smokin hot!!! (She is all tatted out and that a huge turn on for me) She also said I was hot!! woohoo We will chat again tomorrow and I feel good about myself again. Hell Yeah Randuff, go get that new chick. Get some new coochie forget about your ex! IT's time to move on and the best way you do that is between the soft legs of someone else. lol. I'm just joking, take your time their isnt any rush.
Author randuff Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 You oughta see this chick.... Smokin hot!!!!
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