icequeen923 Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Well i wish things were different but they are as they are. I got a phone call this morning from my officer telling me that he didn't want to drag me into things he was having to deal with and that i was too nice of a person to allow myself to be dragged into things like that.I sit here now numb again but not really surprised and wonder to myself what next. I told him to stop pushing me away and that i didn't care what was going on within his family and that i cared about him and what was going on with him and that if i needed to step back and let him deal with some family issues that i would do that but that I wasn't willing to give up on us. Am I just kidding myself or he really just thinking of me? Any advice would be appreciated!
Geishawhelk Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 I think the next step is his. And I think you need to accept one of two things: One - he really might need space and time to deal with stuff, and it might take longer than you think. So I think you need to respect what he's saying and comply. Two - he might be trying to let you down gently and tll you he's not willing to make the big leap now. or ever. Either way, you have a long wait on your hands. As I see it. but that's just me.....
Author icequeen923 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Posted December 31, 2007 I'm on the same wave length as you. I guess I just needed someone else to tell me i was right! Thanks
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 1, 2008 Posted January 1, 2008 icequeen923, All I will say is I agree with Geishawhelk's post. No point repeating myself what that LS user already took the words out of my mouth
sedgwick Posted January 1, 2008 Posted January 1, 2008 Your officer? Is that also your bf? Are you in the military dating a superior?
kalena9488 Posted January 1, 2008 Posted January 1, 2008 You need to sit back and relax. It is mean't to be it will be if not then it's better to lose him now then after your married and possibly have children. Good luck! It's a New Year if I was you I would look at going on without him in my life that may lessen the disappointment if he doesn't find his way back to you.
Author icequeen923 Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 No he is a police officer that is why i call him my officer....sorry
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