caringmanforyou Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 what is a good way to get over an ex if you are in a new relationship
Saxis Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 what is a good way to get over an ex if you are in a new relationship Concentrate on the new relationship?
Citizen Erased Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 How about you don't be in a new relationship until you are over the ex
Trimmer Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 How about you don't be in a new relationship until you are over the ex My thought exactly. I can't imagine entering a new one until I am completely disconnected (and healed, as required) from the last one.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Clear your mind and ties from your ex first
Lishy Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Never get in a new relationship until you are over the ex and never date anyone who is not over their ex ... Hurtsville all around!
EYECANDY000 Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Dont get yourself in the situation where you love two people at one time and cant choose. If you feel like you still have some ties with your ex still and there is room for reconciliation then dont get to involved with the new relationship, or cut them off entirely
reelwoman Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 I agree with what everyone has said here! I have just been in this situation and it SUCKS. My ex and I broke up and I got together with a guy who had just gotten out of a LTR and we were both still really hurting. I wouldnt have gotten into it at all but I've had a crush on this guy for about 5 years....bottom line, it was awful, and it sucks because if the timing had been different I think the new guy and I would have had an amazing relationship, but neither one of us was healed or ready to be with someone else, and we kept hurting each other without meaning to. It is NOT worth it. I am STILL not over my original ex and now and struggling with whether to get back with him, and now I am also dealing with being totally infatuated with and hurting over the second guy too. Losing my mind! It doesn't matter how great the new person is, timing is king here. You need to be over and free of the old relationship, totally free, not just intellectually ( KNOWing it's over) but truly emotionally ( FEELing it's over). Otherwise, the new relationship is doomed. Trust me, I'm in hell right now and it's a much worse hell than it would have been if I had used better judgment!
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