4givrnt4gtr Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Im feeling very lonely at the moment. I talked to my bf and he told me he wanted to spent NYE with his brother who came down from Sac. He told me that if his brother wanted to go out he would call me so we could all go out together. Thats nice but.... What am I supposed to do in the meantime? I dont want to just sit here and wait to see if he's gonna call me. I refuse to spend the nite with my sister cuz..well she's crazy but thats a story for another day, and my friends are all busy with other people... I dont know what to do with myself...i feel that just sitting here all by myself on the NYE, is just sad.....specially when im supposed to have a bf, I mean, isnt this the occasions they are made for?? Totally kidding. But for real...what do i do with myself! Im so lonely right now!
Geishawhelk Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Are you confusing things/ Do you honestly believe that being alone will eqaul being lonely...? Come on, snap out of it. If you had any idea how many millions of people out there are in the same boat.... Try to not wallow in it. Hire a favourite movie, get yourslf a take away, buy a bottle of champagne, turn off your mobile, PC, laptop and unplug your phone, and really, really enjoy the luxury of being on your own, to do whatever you want to do, and enjoy your own precious company, just for one time! Heck, I'd give anything to be able to do that!!
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted December 31, 2007 Author Posted December 31, 2007 Are you confusing things/ Do you honestly believe that being alone will eqaul being lonely...? Come on, snap out of it. If you had any idea how many millions of people out there are in the same boat.... Try to not wallow in it. Hire a favourite movie, get yourslf a take away, buy a bottle of champagne, turn off your mobile, PC, laptop and unplug your phone, and really, really enjoy the luxury of being on your own, to do whatever you want to do, and enjoy your own precious company, just for one time! Heck, I'd give anything to be able to do that!! Haha, I get ya... the problem, or rather the reason why i DONT want to spend the NYE alone is bc, what you just described is something i do every single day unless i go see him (ok minus the bottle of champagne). I guess i had high hopes of being with my bf then, and now seems like its not gonna happen. That made me a bit sad, and then when i started looking to see if i could go have fun with a friend or something i well, realized they were not available, made me more sad. Ugh i dont know... im feeling disconnected at the moment, distanced from my two friends, distanced from my family, blah. PMS maybe..
Geishawhelk Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 When did he tell you about the plans to see his bro'? Did he give you good notice? Does he assume you simply don't mind? Did he bother asking you what you'd be doing, if you weren't seeing him? Did he just assume you'd be doing something else - your 'own thang' as it were? No discussion? No communication? Hmmmm....
spookie Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Hm. I think it's kinda crappy of him to change plans on you with so little notice. I understand why you'd be disappointed. Why can't all of you bring in the new year together? What's the big deal about you being there? You can give them some alone time earlier in the evening and then at 10 or 11 or whatever meet up with them....
Krytie TV Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 I could never fathom not wanting to spend NYE with my girlfriend, even if I think it's going to be on the boring side. NYE is one of those occasions in which people feel like they are socially expected to be out and having a good time, so I can see why you would feel lonely about it. I wish I knew what to say to make it better, but I think what your b/f did was wrong. Why couldn't you spend time with both of them?
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted January 11, 2008 Author Posted January 11, 2008 Ha well, quick update since i didnt see your responses before. WE did end up going out, all of us and I got to spend NYE with my BF. WE just had to do some logistics where he had to spend the evening until 10 with his family and then we met up in a bar at 11. In the meantime i got to hang out with one of my girfriends until then too. It was a great nite after all
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