Cannondale Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Well it's been about a month since my break with my ex-gf. I've never had this prob. before. Norm. after I hangout with my friends a few times and just take some time to myself I can always pretty easily get over an ex. It's diff. this time, I've let go a lot, I don't want her back but I cant seem to fully let go. She keeps making up lies to try and justify what she did after our break(started seeing a new guy after a week of our break), just says I said things I didn't that were hurtful to her and thats what made her get over me so fast. I know time is the best, but is there anything I can do in the meantime to just get this out of me?. I've been hanging out with my friends almost everyday which helps a lot. I know everyone says this prob. but it's just so annoying to still somewhat care about someone even though you know you shouldn't.
s_n_d Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Some people would say to hookup with someone to try to get your mind off your ex. But Id say that would only be a temporary solution and not a good one at that. The best thing to do is give it time. You may not like it. But its the only way Alot of people have told me that time heals. And in the past it HAS healed things. However given my exs and my situation I CANT get over him.
Author Cannondale Posted December 31, 2007 Author Posted December 31, 2007 ^Yeah I'm not really the type to just "hook-up" with another girl, I would feel like a pos if I did something like that I think. Idk, I know time is best. A few times I thought I was over her, but I really wasn't and the "feelings"/anger would re-surface. This is the first girl I loved, so I think thats why it is taking me longer to get through it. Idk, it's just tough, she thinks I'm this horrible person bec. of stuff she says I said to her, stuff that I never said. I know I really shouldn't care, I just think she is making a fabrication to cover up what she did. It's just hard for me to accept that she is a liar I guess...
s_n_d Posted January 1, 2008 Posted January 1, 2008 ^Yeah I'm not really the type to just "hook-up" with another girl, I would feel like a pos if I did something like that I think. Idk, I know time is best. A few times I thought I was over her, but I really wasn't and the "feelings"/anger would re-surface. This is the first girl I loved, so I think thats why it is taking me longer to get through it. Idk, it's just tough, she thinks I'm this horrible person bec. of stuff she says I said to her, stuff that I never said. I know I really shouldn't care, I just think she is making a fabrication to cover up what she did. It's just hard for me to accept that she is a liar I guess... Yeah my ex was my first love as well and I was his first love. We said I love you before only because our exs said it but this time We really meant it. Its so hard. I dont even WANT to move on.. But I know its all in God' s hands now.
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