Passionate69 Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Need more opinion.my best friend married for 3 years now. the odd thing is; until now her husband do not put her name in the bank account and even in the house title name is nothing. the only thing husband share with her is health insurance. every time she need to do the grocerry the husband should go with her because she don't have money in her hands. hubby only give her $20 or 15 for her pocket money.and hubby always attach with her every time she went shopping to buy some things for herself but only limited not more than $ 50. right now she don't have job but she's trying to find one. she's asked me if about her sitution of what i think about it, and told her sounds odd. what do you think guys ? do you think her hubby is just being cheap or just lack of trust ? anyway her hubby is a nice person. if you were in her sitution what do you do ? how would you feel ? do you want still stay with the marriage? btw; they have no child yet. this is her first marriage and the hubby too.
Tripper Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 what do you think guys ? do you think her hubby is just being cheap or just lack of trust ? He doles out the money in drips and drabs AND accompanies her when she needs to buy stuff for herself? And puts a $50 limit on it?? This is about being controlling, not cheap.
ICallsEmAsISeesEm Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 She has no kids and she doesn't work? Yes, her first priority is to get a job. Her second priority is to get smart enough to realize she's nothing more than property to her husband. No doubt, she'll probably get a job offer and he'll put the kabosh to it, anyway. And she'll let him.
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