Author shadowplay Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 (edited) Update. Well things are better now. (definitely seems to be a pattern here) We had a really good time on NYE/his birthday. I resisted the urge to bring up my insecurities, and vowed to enjoy myself. It worked. Maybe he was in a sentimental mood because of the occasion, but he was very affectionate and loving. He said spontaneously that he feels so lucky to have me and he really hopes we stay together in the years to come. He also said at one point "I love you so much," and a bit sheepishly: "I'll admit it, I AM in love with you." I also sensed some insecurity from him about being rejected, which I didn't understand the origins of. He was telling me at one point about how depressing his friend's life has been and I said "I feel really sorry for him." Then he said "Just don't feel too sorry." He added "Please don't run away with him." He said it again a few minutes later out of the blue. I'm not sure what the deal was. Then as I was falling asleep last night he randomly said "tell me you love me." I assured him profusely that I do. Overall he had a great birthday, and I'm glad I got to spend it with him. Edited January 2, 2008 by shadowplay
Florida Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 He added "Please don't run away with him." He said it again a few minutes later out of the blue. I'm not sure what the deal was. I really want to know what he was talking about when he said this-don't you? Is that some metaphorical him, or a literal him? If he is worried about something like that, you should know so you can quell it.
Author shadowplay Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 I really want to know what he was talking about when he said this-don't you? Is that some metaphorical him, or a literal him? If he is worried about something like that, you should know so you can quell it. He's actually told me not to run away with this particular friend before. I'll admit that I am a tad bit attracted to his friend (though I would never leave my bf for him), but I don't understand how my bf could possibly sense this. I'm just civil around him, and if anything try to be slightly distant. Maybe my bf senses some attraction despite my best efforts? I don't know what in my behavior he would be picking up on. And the attraction is mild at best.
Florida Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 That's about as vulnerable as a guy can get with you Shadow-he basically exposed himself out and asked you not to hurt him. Without anger, or ultimatums. Definitely hold this thought in your head next time you doubt him/his love for you.
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