Rowen Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 My ex just texted me he hit me" its 2 am.. i asked her who.. and she said her bf. I texted back "oh my god, are you ok, please tell me you're ok, if you need somewhere to go to, m,y house is welcome to you always" No response yet! what do I do!?!?!
Author Rowen Posted December 30, 2007 Author Posted December 30, 2007 Alright, well she's ok. She's at her mom's now. She called her best friend, and then called her bf's mom......... and is dealing with him now... she said.
Jade 02 Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 Man,smacking her,and they haven't even ben together a month? I'ts only going to get worse for her,I promise that. I been going threw it for 20 years with a few different Ex's.(married 2 of the bastards) Tell her to get the hell away from him now,if she will listen to you. I need to take my own advice also. SUX!!!!!!
Author Rowen Posted December 30, 2007 Author Posted December 30, 2007 Man,smacking her,and they haven't even ben together a month? I'ts only going to get worse for her,I promise that. I been going threw it for 20 years with a few different Ex's.(married 2 of the bastards) Tell her to get the hell away from him now,if she will listen to you. I need to take my own advice also. SUX!!!!!! Unfortunately this is my ex we're talking about who keeps going back and makiing the wrong decisions. She made a right one in being with me.. then dumping me for this ass clown..... sigh........... Now it looks like she may want to get back together...
Author Rowen Posted December 30, 2007 Author Posted December 30, 2007 oh dear lord............. she texted me thanking me.... for last night and i asked if he hurt her... and she said "he hit and pushed me, but i think it was accidental" and i said "accidental hitting and pushing....." and she said "im optimistic" ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?!
Lizzie60 Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 oh dear lord............. she texted me thanking me.... for last night and i asked if he hurt her... and she said "he hit and pushed me, but i think it was accidental" and i said "accidental hitting and pushing....." and she said "im optimistic" ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?! That's why I don't have patience with women like that... They know they're being abused but still choose to stay with the jerk. In this case, they have no children... he's only the bf I suppose... so why is she staying with this jerk... the only reason is that she is insecure, immature and easily manipulated... the 'perfect' woman for an abuser. Oh well.. not much you can do.. don't be the doormat either... She's the one who has to take the decision.
Author Rowen Posted December 30, 2007 Author Posted December 30, 2007 That's why I don't have patience with women like that... They know they're being abused but still choose to stay with the jerk. In this case, they have no children... he's only the bf I suppose... so why is she staying with this jerk... the only reason is that she is insecure, immature and easily manipulated... the 'perfect' woman for an abuser. Oh well.. not much you can do.. don't be the doormat either... She's the one who has to take the decision. yeah no children.. shes young.. 19. I told her, if she needed to talk, that I would be there to talk. she said she was fine.. she took her cat home and needs to "sleep and think" The cat was at her bf's apartment becuase her mom is allergic to cats.. now shes back there.
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