Ugh.. Don't know where to go from here..

[VeryReal]

I had just got out of a year long relationship. She went away to school. I stayed @ the local school (I had a sick family member and felt the obligation to stay). So, we both knew it wouldn't work and mutally broke up.

 

Now, I had been out of the game for a while so wasn't fully sure of myself. I met a girl in my class who I over time fell for. It was a 12 week class; and 2 weeks before the class was over I got her phone number. During that week, I worked like 5 days in a row and just kept getting busy with other things, so never called her. I saw her a week later for the final, but it was the last day and I didn't get a chance to talk her, because once we were done with the final we got to leave. She left before me and gave me eye contact, but I froze and didn't say anything. Horrible, I know.

 

The next night after the final I sent her a text laughing at the fact she seemed so excited for the class to be over and that I bet she had already sold her book. She replied immediately to this text laughing saying "haha, not yet, did you?". I was at work when I got this text so after work I got off at about 11:30pm I replied saying "No, I didn't. But I wanted to see you again, maybe we can celebrate being done with that class."

 

I sent that text a week ago - and still no reply. I guess it's possible she never got it, or that she may be shy and doesn't know how to respond. At least that's what I'm hoping.

 

I feel like I have to know one way or the other though - regardless of the outcome.

 

She gave me a bunch of signs of interests, and I feel like I blew it by sending that text message instead of calling.

 

Do I call this girl? Do I try sending her another text? What do I do? I don't know.

 

She is single by the way. I looked at her my space and she has like no male contact on it - this is making me even more confused or maybe I am right in thinking she is shy.

[crazyinlove123]

yea i think u should definitely call her and see what's going on, grab lunch or coffee or whatever. call her before its too late and she starts another class and meets another dude. she gave u her number for a reason, so call her!