asilisa Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 Hi Everyone So my ex boyfriend broke up with me at the end of October as some of you already know. We had no contact until Thanksgiving; then he starts sending me text messages. We continue texting and have seen eachother a few times. I told him about 2 weeks ago that I didn't want to talk to him anymore. I said to him "Do not contact me." For about four days he did not contact me. Then he sends me a face text message. Then two days later he sends me a sad face . Then Christmas Eve (which was hellish) he sends me a text telling me he bought me something. I answered back and I saw him Christmas night. Then I saw him the next night after work. When I saw him this time he said "Do you have something you wanted to say?" I don't know what he wanted me to say but I told him no. Also, it's been two months and he still has all of our pictures up in his house. Do guys usually do this? I know I took mine down the day it happened. I don't know why I do this to myself. And I don't know why he won't leave me alone. He says he loves me so why the h*ll won't he leave me alone? I am so weak and I keep answering him. I guess the next step will be to change my number. I've never experienced anything like this. usually when people break up doesn't the dumpee do all the contacting? I try to avoid contacting him but he keeps contacting me.
No Foolin Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 You will continue to experience this until you stop contacting him. It not his responsibility to play by your rules. You play by your rules and this will all go away. You don't play by your own rules, then you are playing by his and all the hell that goes with it. Until you TOTALLY decide this is over for YOU it won't be. does that make sense? No Foolin
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