Author Mistaken Identity Posted December 30, 2007 Author Posted December 30, 2007 So here's the update: He emailed me and told me he liked me and that he would love to see me again. I said the art walk was just a suggestion but that I didn't care where we went. So, again, it's a matter of actually setting up a time and place. But I'm leaving that up to him. I'm glad to be given another chance.
Legend Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 Gah! We said make a plan with him! Initiate a plan, don't wait for him or you may never get it ;(
SpanksTheMonkey Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 If you haven't guessed, I'm a little low on self-esteem lately...Any constructive advice is appreciated. Work on this prob before worrying about men when your not happy with your self. You def can't project the best image of you out into the world. Don't try and fix your feeling low about yourself with a new relashionship it wont work in the end. And after the thrill has worn off you will just go back to feeling bad again. My advice forget him and start takeing care of/worrying about you and makeing you happy again 1st!
Jilly Bean Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 So here's the update: He emailed me and told me he liked me and that he would love to see me again. I said the art walk was just a suggestion but that I didn't care where we went. So, again, it's a matter of actually setting up a time and place. But I'm leaving that up to him. I'm glad to be given another chance. OMG, MI. You really DON'T want to actually see him again, do you? For the life of me, despite all the advice you were given on how to respond, you still did the complete and total opposite. You were given a chance by him (again), but I think this time you may have blown it for good. But, me thinks this is the outcome you wanted all along.
Author Mistaken Identity Posted December 30, 2007 Author Posted December 30, 2007 I told him I like him and that I want to go out with him. He said he did, too. He said he had mentioned going to coffee only as an ice breaker to let me know he wanted to see me. So I told him to pick a time and place. What's wrong with that? Shouldn't the man have a say in the arrangements? Wasn't that my first mistake, according to you guys? I expected him to jump through flaming hoops to take me out. Now I'm too passive. The bottom line is that if he doesn't come through, then he obviously isn't that interested. It seems there's no winning with you guys.
Jilly Bean Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 You consistently seem to leave out pertinent points of your story, and then get jumpy when you are challenged on it. We said you were too passive, and you still are. You are still playing games, and doing all you can to sabotage meeting him. But I'm done here - perhaps someone else can get through to you.
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