skoal Posted June 11, 2003 Posted June 11, 2003 I was seeing this girl i had met for a little less than a month and we had talked for almost a month before we started to spend time together and go out and all that stuff. I knew she liked me at some point because her friends told me this and i could tell. things went slow no sex or anything just cuddling and things of that nature. I realized I liked her more than I originally thought, I always had a funny feeling every time I was with her. Some how I kind turned into the clingy, always with her and spending time with her and all that stuff type guy . I didn't want this because I know where that leads and it did. We were never officially together although everyone thought so. After awhile we got farther and farther apart maybe because of the way I acted or didn't act (I didn't make any real moves). So now we are more of like partial friends you know talk here and there alittle, say hi when we see each other but thats it. I know it could have been so much more than that. I want to fix it or try again or something along those lines, Granted she is only 21 and I'm only 22 not the last girl I will ever meet but I still feel like I have to do something. I'm not sure how to go about doing that with out seemingly being clingy or desperate and completely turning her away. Anyone have any ideas, suggestions or comparisons how to get back on the right track or do I just mark this one down as a loss and go find another one. Thanks for any replies
Rob Posted June 11, 2003 Posted June 11, 2003 We've all been there. It's tough when you really like someone and they don't feel quite the same for you as you do for them. In time, it will pass. Go outside. Read a good book. Rent that movie you've always wanted to see. Make new friends. You've got your whole life ahead of you. Love is just around the corner and sometime soon, some great woman will enter your life. Don't pay so much attention to a closed door that you fail to see another open. It may take weeks or even months to get over it, but when you turn that corner, you'll be greatly relieved. Best of luck.
NEONINK Posted June 11, 2003 Posted June 11, 2003 I like the fact that you "didn't make any real moves". It was just the getting to know each other stage. And a lot of times, when you proceed with sex, it amounts to commitment before compatibility. And that leads to a lot of divorces!
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