Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 For those of you contemplating cheating, have cheated or have been cheated on, here's a song for you. Since the characters are a little young in the clip, I thought it belonged more in this forum, rather than the Infidelity forum. I can truly relate to this clip, especially her rage and pain upon discovery. While I never broke anything, it was very tempting and symbolic when she stomped on the pic of the two of them... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9w2QUAjgEA
Star Gazer Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 The video doesn't really match the lyrics... I've always found the lyrics were so romantic. Putting them to this video makes me sad.
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 It's not a happy combination which is why it affected me so much. It's symbolically what happened to me.
pyroguy Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 Yes, but the ending is the best part, don't you think? and for those who were cheated on, maybe that's the best medicine. TBF, has it not crossed your mind to flaunt a new hot guy in front of the old has been who is now missing out? matuer or not.
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 No, pyroguy, I would never do that. I've had my pound of blood from my ex-H. I just want him to move on now but he can't seem to do that.
pyroguy Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 Please don't tell me you actually had to walk in on something like that. you didn't mean literally, right?
Ariadne Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 Missing the ex TBF? Have you heard from him at all?
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 Thank God, no. I found out through some investigation. I view much of it as symbolic to what happened to me.
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 Ariadne, no, not missing him. I saw him once at a cocktail affair for Christmas, where we were civil. He also tried to drop off a Christmas present with my parents, but they wouldn't accept it.
Saxis Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 (edited) Yes, but the ending is the best part, don't you think? and for those who were cheated on, maybe that's the best medicine. TBF, has it not crossed your mind to flaunt a new hot guy in front of the old has been who is now missing out? matuer or not. I didn't see that as flaunting. Please don't tell me you actually had to walk in on something like that. you didn't mean literally, right? I actually wish I would've walked in on my X. It would've made for a much easier and quicker decision than hearing 3 different stories about what happened... and she didn't even sleep with him! I still don't know which story to believe, but it doesn't really matter anymore. One of my favorite songs though! Edited December 28, 2007 by Saxis
Ariadne Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I saw him once at a cocktail affair for Christmas, where we were civil. He also tried to drop off a Christmas present with my parents, but they wouldn't accept it. Oh oh And now you are watching videos about him......
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 I found this clip by accident while surfing for a different song, watched it and thought it was perfect for LS.
pyroguy Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 Ariadne, no, not missing him. I saw him once at a cocktail affair for Christmas, where we were civil. He also tried to drop off a Christmas present with my parents, but they wouldn't accept it. Are you sure? really sure? You seem like the type to be tough, confident, and full or self respect-who wouldn't stand for that. yet, I suppose when you were with someome who you thought was your life partner, no matter what they did, it will still make you sad and reflective. I hope you don't crumble.
cj1988 Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 What song and by who? I could not open the attachment.
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 No pyroguy, I won't crumble. Once you lose complete trust and respect for someone, there's no going back. But yes, the clip did make me sad. It didn't have to be this way.
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 cj, go to youtube and look up "Whereever You Will Go" by The Calling.
Ariadne Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I hope you don't crumble. Yes! Crumble. Crumble, crumble, crumble. Go love! Btw, I love Karma by Alicia Keys. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_SmJpAmirw That's Denver guy coming back to me, oh yeah! Ariadne
Touche Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 Wow, Ariadne. You're sure barking up the wrong tree. TBF has more self-control in her little finger than I have in my whole being. It's one of the things I admire the most about her. Anywho, actions speak louder than words. Her actions don't speak of someone who is pining away. (I don't think she even owns a set of binoculars!)
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 I do have a telescope. Is that meaningful?
Touche Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I do have a telescope. Is that meaningful? :laugh: Touche' LOL! Well, I'm sure it's pointed at the stars....and not at your ex.
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 :laugh: Touche' LOL! Well, I'm sure it's pointed at the stars....and not at your ex. It's pointed somewhere and while it's not my ex, he's awfully cute.
Saxis Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 :laugh: Touche' LOL! Well, I'm sure it's pointed at the stars....and not at your ex. I'm just glad she didn't say: Leupold 4X12
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 Perhaps I need to go shopping, Saxis.
Touche Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 It's pointed somewhere and while it's not my ex, he's awfully cute. Cute is as cute does.
Author Trialbyfire Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 Cute is as cute does. What if I told you it was pointed at sugarboy? You'd be way more enthusiastic.
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